3. You can’t talk about the future with him
So you did everything together, and you had an entire plan for your life as a couple. Getting married, getting a nice house, having a pet, and then raising your children happily together. Maybe you achieved some of these, or maybe not; it is not that important. The thing that matters right now is the fact that you can’t talk about the future with your spouse anymore.
It might feel weird. Not so long ago, you were planning the next 30 years together, and now you can’t even discuss the next two or three years or plan a vacation. The obvious result of all of this is that you start to doubt your future together. Why is he avoiding making any long-term plans that involve you?
As you might have been expecting, this might be one of the signs your spouse doesn’t love you, and we want you to be aware of this. It is better to talk with him sooner rather than later. After all, it is all about your relationship and what happens with it.
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The author of this article has to be an unmarried woman. She got everything wrong. 5 of the 6 are normal for any guy who’s been married a few years. The one about “not being comfortable around happy couples” is just weird, probably means he doesn’t like the couple, not that he’s out of love with you.
You know it’s not just him Women can display the same things. With women they will stay with a guy for money reasons that’s it !
So there’s not two sides!?! Why are you only “blaming” the men in your post.
So it’s ok if the woman does those and more, but it’s the men’s fault. Are you high or just that delusional of ignorance.?
The hate you give only creates a larger divide.
Wow , Whoa
Why is it always that the husband is talked about in this manner? I beg to differ because I know first hand its the wife too.
I have a 7th sign, that being…your spouse stops finding humor in your humor.
Other signs: Spouse would prefer to sit on a separate chair then on a couch together.
Spouse spends an inordinate amount of time talking to friends or family on the phone in
hushed tones.
Spouse seems to have a need to speak or eat meals with other people without you
Spouse wants to do more and more alone
Spouse wants to sleep in a separate bed for non-medical reasons
You are so right about the secrecy with the phone. The ringer is turned down. Gets texts and doesn’t want to check right away. Doesn’t want to answer when it’s ringing. Picking up phone so the number calling can’t be seen. Also wanting to leave the house around the same times every day before or after text.
Sitting on a separate chair vs the couch together isn’t a sign. Some people have different preferences as to how they’re comfortable. They may feel more relaxed reclining back vs sitting right up on a couch.
Speaking or eating meals without you isn’t a sign either. There are times, and even topics where a SO may want to talk with someone else. They may want some ‘them’ time and want to spend time with friends.
More and More alone can be a sign of distance, but can also be a sign they just are going through something and need to do it on their own. Or they being independent.
Separate beds can be more than just medical.
Honestly, at the end of the day a relationship (healthy) isn’t your entire life and theirs as a single one. It’s 2 individuals sharing a life together, while still being individuals. A constant need to spend every waking moment with someone is a sign of co-dependency.
Guess I don’t love me spouse since I sit in a separate chair. 26years in and never been an issue.
Those are the obvious signs and they’re sneaky ones are you the ones you got to worry about when they start cheating behind your back then tell you I love you to your face
Finding your spouse in bed with her sister, brother & uncle having fun is a very clear sigh she/he doesn’t love you.
Why is only from one viewpoint!?! Women are just as bad and worse at times. Both sides have experienced getting treated like trash so why pretend it’s only a one sided narrative.?
What if the roles are reversed? Are the feelings the same. Please let me know.
In the society where women rule due to their leftist victimhood status and what men do that is call toxic is called strong in women and women have such advantages with all the DEI and affirmative action crap, the other direction doesn’t matter. You know, like if you are honest and say harris is dumb and a liar then you are insulting all women, which is just more leftist propaganda.
Yes, my ex wife just wasn’t interested in me at all. After our second child we seem to grow farther apart. She wasn’t near the same person I married years before and was always finding reason to argue or put me down for anything I did. I know we are taught as men to be strong. I stayed in tears. Then she tells me she wants more and it’s over!
These aren’t signs he OR SHE doesn’t love you anymore! These are signed you’ve been married for quite awhile and need not be fake or worried that your spouse is even questioning something so stupid. Please grow up, this teen age gossips articles are even below your publication.
I can’t agree more I wonder how many people have been hurt by this article
It’s titled “6 Signs your SPOUSE doesn’t love you” it’s not gender specific. It’s totally the work of both. Women are just as much as wrong as the men sometimes. Sometimes in a relationship where the man is pulling back. As women we have to own our part and either ask for help or stop the behaviors.
Best answer of the year. It is what it is. Time changes everything.
Yes, I agree. My husband sleeps in another room because of the noise my CPAP makes, but he shows me he loves me all the time. I’m his pit crew of 1 for his go Kart. LOL
I agree with you. It means you’ve been married for many years and are comfortable not having thru hoops of fire any longer. All that has been replaced with respect and space .
Agree 100%, in a relationship you both get comfortable and trust each other. When you were younger the game of having to holding hands every second or even sex changes. Our bodies change it is quite normal as you grow older. I’m 70ty years old and things change in life as one age, deal with it!!
That’s quite a statement. Is this based on your own limited experience or just a guess of what might explain.
You sound like a high school student writing about something you think you know. That post of yours had some supposition on your part that we are all so much alike …..NO, not that often.
You should try more attempts to use facts.
I agree with John .
That’s what I was thinking. A lot of these are just signs of a long term marriage and have nothing to do with not loving their partner. No one stays in that ‘madly in love stage’ for that long. Life gets in the way.
I completely agree with your comment.
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what about the HER signs this doesn’t just work one way?
If your questioning your marrage then go to her and have a talk! Just flat out ask her, and not with a sad puppydog face cause it’s hard to be honest when your face is begging you to lie!! Just talk! Maybe you’ll find out she’s feeling the same way!! Can’t hurt!!
Why is it ALWAYS HE??????
Woman are way more better at being unfaithful at least the one’s I’ve ever had unfortunately been with over the past 50 plus years so title should of been Her Or He not Men… LOL
wife married me cuz “I liked to talk”. then proceeded to SHUT ME DOWN. I now understand why some people do some really drastic thigs, to make the pain stop. I bought a motorcycle, I go riding (around other crazy people, that also don’t care).
because guys always get blamed for everything sorry
because guys are always blamed for everything sorry
Because all females are PERFECT and DON’T need us men anymore.
They all want each other.
Thet say we can’t get it up, so we must have ED?
BUT they smell bad and that is a real turn off.
Then they cover it up with a can of spray, LUME!
IT’S ALWAYS TRE MEN that are losers abd have to suffer.
STOP making things like this all about the man! The woman plays a huge role in keeping the love, relationship, and romance alive and well! What role does the woman play in driving her spouse away…that is a better question!
I don’t believe this is true in every case. I joined a church when I was 18 and was the perfect wife and he took advantage of that. Not until I was in my mid-twenties did I find out he was cheating on me the entire time. I would work full time, take care of all the bills, never question his paycheck, never ask for a portion of his although he would help out “sometimes”. I paid the rent, cell phones, utilities, groceries, front the vacations twice a year, weekend outings, but our kid (1 at the time) clothes, etc. Come to find out, he had a whole other cell phone in order to have these other relationships. Because I was taught to cater and serve my husband, I never snooped nor questioned him. I even served him the way he liked in the bedroom even though it was against my religious beliefs. He still went out there not only cheating but with people he went to school with and whom literally lived local to us which I feel is the most disrespectful thing you can do. So everyone in our circle knew about it but me. We lived in the town he was born and raised in. My heart hurt so much, it tore our marriage apart. He promised to stop when we found out we were pregnant with twins. What did he do? Cheat on me while I was pregnant with them. I lost one of them at 30 weeks gestation. When I got home, he had moved a whole other woman into our home and put our son into the living room because “she had nowhere to go” I could not even mourn the deat of our daughter in peace, SMH. As it turns out, she was smoking meth in our home and we anded up having to kick her out. On top of that, she was stealing my pain medication (I had a cesarian) along with the post-partem meds the prescribed me. I am not so sure he wasn’t screwing her as well. (She was 17 at the time, he was 29. I still belong to my church and unfortunately, we are still together. My son (the twin who survived) is now 18 and just graduated from High School and Community College where he was a part of a Dual enrollment program has just gone off to a very Prominent Ivy League HBCU and is thriving. Unfortunately, my oldest (27) is serving a 23-year prison sentence for manslaughter. My two youngest are doing exceptionally well. My high Schooler is playing Flag Football with a very famous High School and has already toured several states. She also runs track and depending on who gives her a scholarship first also wants to play professionally. I fell as if I would have left early on, my oldest would not be where he is at. SO in closing, I feel bad that women/people are always making it all about the man but unfortunately, I didn’t seem to have any luck in the department and I made it my goal and life to be a kind, understanding, loving, faithful wife who would always be there for my husband so my family would thrive and succeed in this world but I was just hurt and taken advantage of. I went to school and became a Paralegal and picked up the slack when my husband failed to provide for us, which was more often than not. I suffered abuse and my children had to endure anguish and confusion and most times I HATE MYSELF FOR IT. I am sorry for a lot of men because I see a lot of women are manipulative and ungrateful for a good man but I guess those are the cards we are dealt.
Shut up. It’s beyond obvious why…
My husband was also unfaithful (multiple times) and I left him after 7 years. My youngest of two sons was 1. It was the best decision I made for myself. If I would’ve stayed, it would have destroyed me. I had to survive for my children. It takes a very strong woman to stay through that like you did, and even though I was strong in a different way for doing it on my own, like I said earlier, we make the best decisions for ourselves and it’s nobody’s business to judge. I hope you found joy in your path, even if it was in small increments. I find mine in my children and grandchildren. Both of my sons are thriving and married good Christian women and have successful marriages. Gid bless you.
Elizabeth,
Please consider that you are not at fault. It seems to me that you did everything that you could do and it is your spouse that was dishonest, sneaky, and sad. He will never realize what he has done to you or your children. May I suggest that you focus on you and your children.
Be kind to yourself and spoil “you”
I’m confused. You didn’t do anything to make your husband act the way he did, so why are you expressing so much sorrow for men like him? Any human can do wrong, but in your case it was him. He took advantage of you and continues to do so. That said, your story has nothing to do with manipulative woman and ungrateful woman. YOU have a manipulative and ungrateful man and the reason for the response is that it truly hurts me to see you have so much self loathing and contempt for yourself. Grow some self respect and leave him. Your children will respect you more, and you can have a chance at the happiness you deserve. There is much more life to live and it’s never too late to fall in love. Start by falling in love with yourself!!!!!
you have been through a lot, you survived, you are a strong woman, so sorry to hear about your oldest son, you have done well raising your other children. I see you are still married , even though you had a valid reason to choose the God given option of divorcing an adulterous mate. Mathew 5:32; 19:9 – and maybe you have forgiven your husband for committing adultery, I wish you and your family the best – Mary
Thank God for blessing your children and God’s love for your child in prison. I think it is a waste of time to be with someone who doesn’t love and respect you. People feel that because they have children, they should try making the marriage work. Well, listening to your story, he has no respect or love for his children also. Thank God I raised my child not to accept any man whether married or not, to let him abuse, misuse or slow your life down. Told her not to have children until she has embraced life. Enjoying life is what I have done and the three I was married to is no longer in my life or mind, thank God. My daughter has her dog, job, education.
HOW TRUE!!!!!!!!!!
You were Stupid Than, Marriage is a Partnership that has it’s ups and Downs. You have to give in a Marriage and not just take. Wake-up or you are in trouble!!!!!!
Sounds like your husband is just a church goer and not a true Christian. A true Christian man will always strive to be like Jesus, living a life pleasing to God. You have done well regardless of your many challenges. May God continue to bless & help you in Jesus greatest name amen.
You seem like a very strong and faithful woman.
I’m so sorry for what happened to your eldest child, and the one you lost.
Maybe the great success of your other kids had a lot to do with the faith and strength they saw in you. May the Lord continue to bless you and your family.
Damn… sorry there Ms. Mrs. …. Your significant other is a jerk. I hate guys like this. Sad story for you. I guess you just kinda keep plugging along , till the End… you can pray for whatever, or meditate , or just go for good self care …. Life is just ….. not easy …. Is my conclusion … stay close to the child who has success in the ivy school? That is exciting and nice? Other than That, I have no advice.Good Luck Hun.
You are spot on
you are correct and everything should go equal husband / wife or girfriend /boyfriend
I agree
When I got married to my wife a couple of years ago, we were wid. All of a sudden, I am being told that I must be religious in order to consumate. What’s with the sudden change?
That’s what happens when Christ comes in to a person. The former person dies, a new one is born!
You’re no longer dealing with the same person. She’s a new creation!
Why is so negatively one sided? Women cheat and become equally distant, even more so in this day and age. “Technology” has a massive influence on creating the gap.
Yes & No
A lot of things can make either sex become distant from one another, like mental and emotional or physical abuse, verbal and emotional can make someone pull away,
nothing yet
Love is a choice, it is action, it is a verb. We take the example of John 3:16, for God so LOVED the world that he GAVE his only begotten son… It is “giving” so when a man and a woman get married, they are GIVING one to the other. Feelings do not come into play. Yes, we can be attracted to our mate by feelings, but LOVE is a conscious commitment. If love depended on feelings, then, when hard times come, and the physical part dwindles away, couples would fall apart, but with a true LOVE commitment, GOD is in the center of the relationship, without GOD, the equation turns to just plain FIRE, and when the fire goes out, all that remains are ashes,
Beautiful, very well written.
Like the Great full dead wrote in a tune “fade away” Love is real not fade away, ashes ashes all fall down………
Awesome post.
This is the best counsel, I ha e seen with respect to this topic.
AMEN !
AMEN! I wholeheartedly agree
Well said. It takes two to become one. When a marriage fails both sides are at fault. The Although, fault isn’t always equal. When love goes, so does the marriage. What is love? The best definition of love is in Corinthians 13.
Amen I often say ” If we lived according to 1:Corinthians 13 this world would be a much better place married or not . Relationships are work , hard work . People tend to put resaons before the failures . I say as long as there is no abuse there is hope. People believe LOVE is just a heart thing . God is amazing . Jesus new He said Love God and your neighbor , as yourself . If we genuinely have that how can we stop FALLING out of ? Easy question the necessary tools were not used to fight where we have the power to fight . I can go on all day . The world today is as in the days of Noah , everything bad increasing especially in America . In other Countires people marry or a bethrowed an they make it . They do because they have a fear even of a God that isnt the God of Abraham . Respect , Communication , so many other necessary ways of living . That Corinthians chapter is all . For God so loved the world is something He did for us . Some people dont know how , cant or refuse to do the same for others. smh
Your partner doesn’t truthfully apologize.ask them later
It’s over
How about the wife ‘s part of cheating. Not only men cheat
I left my husband over a year ago and we had been in relationship over 30 years. In that time there was off and on cheating on his part in the early stage along with manipulation, with physical and verbal abuse where I became an emotional wrecking ball and shamed. We moved across country away from my family. Things became a life of living in survival with good times then really awful times. I woke up last year and filled my SUV and drove 10 hours to get away from chaos and change my life. Unfortunately my life took a spin on Christmas and I was in the hospital getting a bypass surgery due to peripheral vascular disease blood blocking flow to my legs and then causing amputation of toe on foot. WTH I was wondering why and next thing I know I lost my job and my husband never came to see me or show up to care. I took another blow as healing wasn’t going well and I ended up leaving my son and grandson to travel over 2000 miles for my sister to drop me off at the hospital for another surgery to amputate more. I am now sick and tired and hope to get back home. Not to my husband but my son and grandson. I only have short term life left and want my sunshine back. My husband wants me back now, but does not share his love for me. I feel raged and torn from his relationship as when I needed him the most he sent me away across country and not even taking me back to care for me. I am going to say history of course being the victim of abuse and disregard with disrespect and being cheated on I will never forgive or forget.
Poor sukaz got married. lol
My opinión is ,respect, care and love goes together In a relationship, if one of them is not in their relationship ,may as well go each other away. One of them will cheat, beacuse something is missing at home ,usually is the respect towards each other. Some couple love to involved their family or friends on their private issued and end up making the matters worse. What happen at home try to solve it and keep it at home.
The author erroneously defines love as “a complex emotion”… once I read that. I realized that she does not know that “love is a choice” marriage is about commitment and understanding that each person has a specific role to play in the relationship. People should never ever get married without having a full understanding of the role each person must play in the relationship and each person must accept the role that the other is supposed to play.
Marriage is not about happiness or romance is about building a microsociety. and this endeavor requires hard work, commitment, dedication and focus on the family not on the “feelings” of the beholder.
Your happiness must come from within you. You must get yourself together, emotionally, psychologically, and make a choice to be happy. Once you choose to be happy, you are ready to share your happiness with someone who is also happy out of choice.
Never condition your happiness on another person because you
will be disappointed. It is also wholly unfair to make your spouse or BF responsible to make you happy.
If you want true happiness, loook deep inside your heart, get a brutal and honest therapist who could guide you through the minefield of your emotions, past traumas, and your ocean of deep rooted insecurities. Only then will you be able to understand how to keep a long lasting relationship that may transcend the tests of time and harshness of life.
All this is is clickbait to get you to one of their sister websites. While some of this could be true, it is being presented in a very skewed manner. Every relationship has its own merits . What works in one relationship might not in another. There are other reasons as to why someone would do some of these things that is not related to cheating. For those that it really is that, I do not mean to downplay what has happened to you. But for those who stumbled upon this a article, i cannot stress enough to not jump to conclusiions. Accusing someone of cheating when they arent can do just as much damage as someone that cheats.
Been with the same Woman for 34 years, Yes we drift from one other, guess what, that is growing old together, Yes I have outside Hobbies, it’s just far enough away from her voice, That I can think. but I love this woman with my being, I am only what the good Lord made me, as is she. Get off thew high horse for a moment and live some reality.
This is so one-sided that it disgusts me. What about her role in the “partnership ,” marriage, relationship, union, etc… give me a break. Men try hard! It’s when we get fed up, we quit trying. Then we’re the bad guys!! You can only kick a dog so many times until they stop coming around to greet you at the door. This article just fuels the fire.
I’ve been married 33 years, To a man that I know loves me to the moon! But we don’t do everything together, we have our own friends and we have vacations alone! I like spending time with the kids and he likes hanging with the guys! We have lots of different interests and a lot of the same! We are all different people with different personalities,. As we grow up and mature, out likes change and we go all different ent directions. That doesn’t mean someone doesn’t love you anymore. Everyone has their differences and it’s when the difference between you is bigger then the things you love about them, then maybe there’s a reason to go but if you both can’t see life without the other, then your fine! He might not be real interested in my garden but, when my flowers start blooming, he’s the first one I want to show it to and he’s the first one to notice it!
Cuz the guy cheats more than a woman does
Yes they do the issue is men don’t tell women that they are married they just cheat with a woman until she fines out he’s married then she leaves him
After 61 years of marriage, I finally discover that my 84-year-old wife does not love me at all. And the feeling is mutual. So I guess that’s all right. We’ll keep on going — until we find someone else.
Way is it always the MAN that is at fault? Is the wife always perfect?
For the love of GOD! This list is so stupid. Most of these can just be a sign of depression or a ‘low point’ that has nothing to do with an SO. They may be experiencing something and it’s causing them to do any number if not all of them.
Why is it so difficult for me to be intimate with my spouse after there has been infidelity in the relationship. There was a baby involved but the baby didn’t survive the pregnancy. It’s so hard for me to gain that trust again and it has been been over 3 yrs… There’s more but I will save it for another day and time….
you have been through a lot, you survived, you are a strong woman, so sorry to hear about your oldest son, you have done well raising your other children. I see you are still married , even though you had a valid reason to choose the God given option of divorcing an adulterous mate. Mathew 5:32; 19:9 – and maybe you have forgiven your husband for committing adultery, I wish you and your family the best – Mary
Happiness is an inside job. Not happy with your spouse?…..maybe the problem is with you. Our pledge to each other is to love and serve each other…thats the purpose of life !…If each of us focus on that I promise life will become more fulfilling and happy. It’s not about focusing on our own needs …all of us have a sacred duty to learn how we can better serve our spouse. Insensitive or controlling men and self -absorbed or needy women (another means of control) were not a good choice to begin with. So why did you make that choice?? Start at the right place and make the right choice … then serve them….ødds are .you’ll be happy for the rest of your life.
They out their phone away when you walk in the room, they stop eating your food even though you make their favorite, they don’t want to take family pics with you, they are away more than home…
Did anyone consider the fact a guy doesn’t care anymore because he feels she doesn’t care about him? If she cheats on him showing him she doesn’t care about him, why should he worry about looking good for her?
What about the woman, you commented on the man. The wife tends to loose interest faster than the husband.
Well I hate say this my husband cheated on me 2 times and accused me of cheating and I swear to God I never did and I didn’t he cheated on me with two crackhead whores and I know that for real he made a video of it and didn’t think 🤔 I found it but I did how stupid can a man be make a video and try to hide it 😂😂 then he definitely denied it saying it was someone else
SIX signs you are being misled or manipulated into focusing on non-existent issue! Just read this article! I will not be led or coerced into nonsense or fear mongering.
Our experiences differ; because of that do not say MEN or WOMEN do this or that, even though we have allot that is gender related – it is not precise. Say my man or woman is this or that way. It removes the bitter taste of being untrue from the mouth of your readers. It Leaves room for our own personal experiences to weigh in on the conclusion.
This article is a one way article pregitious, You blame everything on we the men. What a disgrace , roles reversed ???
First month after our marriage my husband cheated. It hurt because l loved and trusted and lm a one man woman. There were other times that l caught him cheating. I had planned to only marry once and l didn’t believe in devorce.
We stayed together for 30 years. He passed away last year from a stroke. I still love my husband and miss him.
I wish my mind thinking I love are married around 60 year old beautiful lady
In today’s mind set. Women have been brainwashed to believe that men should do everything and that it’s always the man’s fault. Why? Because they believe what all the big tv women say or what happened to their friends. Here’s what I’m going to say about this.. STOP AND LOOK AT THE WHOLE PICTURE!!! THE WHOLE PICTURE not just what you want to see. Really take a step back and look at your life history. Most people won’t because they don’t want to see that they were wrong!! Men are simple. We love the same things that women do but we don’t ask for it!!!! We don’t asked to be touched or kissed every morning or ask for hug we just do it. That what we expect from our partners as well. When we have to ask for it that generally means your not showing us attention.. Learn what drives your partner passion and actually give a care when they asked to spend time with you!! Works both ways!!! But anyways it’s not always the man’s fault, just think about it ladies when your man seems distant.
Yes, my ex wife just wasn’t interested in me at all. After our second child we seem to grow farther apart. She wasn’t near the same person I married years before and was always finding reason to argue or put me down for anything I did. I know we are taught as men to be strong. I stayed in tears. Then she tells me she wants more and it’s over!
So here’s my deliemma and I’d be interested in everyone’s input.
Happily married for 13 years. And all of a sudden I did have a moment where I was invited to hang out with my coworkers for a few nights out for celebration of birthdays. It was great I was able to go dancing have a few drinks and enjoy just having a girl’s night out. I was the first one to leave bc I promised my husband I wouldn’t be home late. After that it was like everything fell apart. He started to accuse me of cheating (which nothing happen I was just with my coworkers). Which let also say when I asked him if he was cool with me going out (out of respect) he never said or did anything and told me it was fine. I asked 3x before the date to be sure he was good and Everytime it was fine. I get back and he then starts arguing with me, accusing me and it’s like everything just blew up. Few days later apparently my past is now important and I’ll be honest I was no angel when I was younger but we all go through things. I’m not the same person I was before I was with my husband I got my self done right. well now my past is what he uses against me and he tells me he can’t see me like before and that this is all my fault I should have never told him about my past and now it’s impacting our daily lives together. We don’t talk, we can’t love each other like before bc he’s always telling me he looks at me and says he’s disgusted and that he wants nothing to do with me. Im a strong believer if things don’t go right then it’s best to fix them. This isn’t getting fix. I offered couples therapy, nope he refuses. So then I offered the divorce, he doesn’t want a divorce bc he still loves me. I’m so confused with life I don’t want to be without him but I’m not happy and neither is he. So what now, yes we have kids together but Ive handle things for a long time. Bills, groceries, fun trips etc. I dont see it being a challenge for me to beba single mom you know it’s due able. Thoughts
Sounds like that’s what my wife is doing.
These are LITERALLY lamest things to use against somebody. Maybe, just maybe they already tried to tell you that they’re losing interest, but instead of looking in the mirror you continued on the same path.
This victim mentality is the biggest problem. Relationships are a two way street turned into one, not one way and the other was snatched along the way. If there’s no real compromise and consistency, then one or other will sway away.
YES! Females are equally guilty or even worse, because they weaponize what they know about their partners against them. This isn’t an attack, but this is a large reason why from a man point of view we shut down. Never stopped caring or loving, but tired of the lack of willingness to understand.
I am a woman…that has been cheated on and when there are whores that will undress without being asked just because they are too stupid to go to work. they offer themselves for dope and money to men that they know are taken and they flat-out disrespect you along with your man. cheaters should not even tell a real woman that he loves her or have a good woman period. If a man disrespects his woman over trash, then trash is what he deserves. The same goes the other way. if u can’t treat a good partner with respect, then u don’t deserve a good partner you deserve trash… everything you do in this life is a choice and actions do speak loud and clear. These disorders that a lot of people have are doing badly to their partners and getting away with it. disordered people know exactly what they are doing and believe that they are not doing anything wrong. but go into a rage at you if you confront them just to shut you up because they don’t want to hear about their wrongdoings. they will never be accountable or tell you the truth. there needs to be classes on how to spot these people. their main objective is to destroy their partner and the only crime their partner has done is loving them and always being there for them. the more they get away with their evil doings the more they will do it to you or the next person. don’t be scared, call them out. Videotape their evil actions and play it for them. if you act ugly, I think hiding it from the general population is wrong. Treat your partner badly behind closed doors act like you’re a good person to everyone else and play the victim when there’s no way in hell, you’re the victim but spread your lies and half-truths about your partner so they only buy into the one PLAYING the victim. If only people knew, but you don’t and don’t care until it happens to you. get educated people… These Narcissistic Psychopaths and Sociopaths need to be stopped. And you don’t have just a Narcissist or just a Psychopath or just a Sociopath, they all go together. you don’t have one or the other. Psychopaths are born into. Sociopaths are triggered. But they all go together and get away with murder. More like silent murder, where they tear down a good person and murder their self-esteem, spirit, and soul. Normal people cannot wrap their brains around how someone could really be this evil.