The 5 Signs of a Boring Marriage. What Do Experts Say?

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5. It’s always about the same old fight

This might not be as intuitive as the other signs of a boring marriage, but it is definitely one of them. There comes a time when you realize that you and your spouse keep fighting about the same thing over and over again, but none of you really have arguments.

This creates a vicious circle, and in the end, you will always come back to the same fight. These things won’t go away if you do nothing about them. If you want a problem to disappear, you need to solve it. And in a marriage, this means that both partners should work together for the better.

When boredom takes over your marriage, you might feel like you don’t have the power you need any more in order to solve all of the problems. A boring marriage might make you feel drained.

Maybe the fight was caused by this state of boredom from the beginning, and you keep perpetuating it because you don’t know what to do with it. This is also possible. Couple therapy might be a good alternative to figure this out.

Nobody wants to find themselves in a context like this, and knowing the signs of a boring marriage is a good skill to have. This might give you the power to save your relationship.

Have you ever noticed these signs in your marriage? How did you manage them? Tell us about your experience in the comments section!

If you want to learn more about how to communicate better in your marriage or relationship, this book might be helpful: Communicate Your Feelings (without starting a fight): What to Say and What Not to Say to Your Partner (Mental & Emotional Wellness)

You should also read: 6 Incredible Ways to Overcome Boredom in Marriage

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