3. Don’t rush
One of the mistakes couples make in order to overcome a divorce is to take everything at once. They talk about their problems, but instead of tackling each one at a time (slowly but surely, you know?), they end up feeling overwhelmed and might fight again, saying mean things to one another in the end.
There’s nothing wrong with fighting, but if your arguing turns into an episode of putting the blame on one another, that’s a lost battle.
If avoiding divorce is your priority, then you should make an effort to come up with a plan to solve your issues. Don’t get caught up in trying everything at once, because that might turn into a bigger mess.
Cooperate, talk, be honest, and take one thing at a time. Don’t forget that both of you need to be proactive and interested in making things better, because an only partner isn’t going to keep the relationship glued together.
