How does your S.O. sit?
You will know how to spot a confident and relaxed sitting posture: it’s one where your S.O. is leaning back with their legs unfolded and slightly open. If your partner is a bit more insecure, they will probably have their arms and legs folded in.
One of the most common sitting positions you could pay attention to is sitting with your legs splayed open. This shows confidence and even personal attraction. Also, sitting with legs tightly crossed shows that someone is closed off, nervous, or even unreceptive. Crossed ankles could show that your S.O. is calm.
Fidgeting
If your partner fidgets while sitting or standing, it might be a sign of anxiety, boredom, or, worse, irritation. You also want to pay attention to any fiddling with the hands or any other objects.
How your partner touches or holds their head
If your partner tilts their head, then this means they are showing increased interest in you and what you’re saying. Moreover, if you notice your S.O. touching their face or even playing with their hair, it might be a sign that your partner is feeling comfortable.
If you see your partner covering up their face or even holding their head in their hands, then this might show that they are dealing with anxiety, stress, or embarrassment.