On this episode of DETANGLED
Every relationship is different, and we all know that. Some people are okay with talking every now and then and going on dates weekly, while others don’t care too much about PDA or any other forms of physical affection. But for me, being on my partner’s mind is very important. If you’re like me and you want to be on your partner’s mind all the time, keep reading!
Do you want to be on your partner’s mind 24/7?
You can tell me that I’m nuts, but I want to know that he still finds me attractive and fun. Don’t get me wrong; I’m not trying to sound a little too involved in my SO’s life or too preoccupied regarding my relationship. I just want to keep the flame and the exciting things going, although we have had almost 20 years of marriage.
So, if you’re like me and want to make sure you’re on their mind at all times, I’ve got all the advice you need. There are some simple ways you could make your partner dream about you even when they’re away, or even better, make them think about you while they’re out and about and you’re home.
So how can you make sure that you’re always on their mind? Well, I’ll give you the tea, but you have to read this article to find out!
1. Don’t forget to play
If you’ve been with your significant other for quite a while, you probably remember how nice and fun things were when you first began dating. Maybe you used to surprise one another with different things, play all sorts of silly games that made both of you laugh, go on dates that were funky, or maybe even prank each other at times, just so you would break up the routine.
So who said that you should let the fun go just because you’re in a serious relationship? Whether you just started dating someone or you’ve been in a committed relationship for a while now, you shouldn’t forget about your goofy side or that of your SO.
Surprise them, tell a joke, make them laugh and feel good around you, play with them, and make them feel special, appreciated, and confident. But the most important thing is to be yourself, and I guarantee you that you’ll always be on their mind.
2. Kiss, kiss, kiss
A kiss can make everything better. Or at least that’s how I see things. A kiss can make you think of steamy things in the bedroom, or it can make you feel good when you’re sad or happy when you see your special someone.
If you remember your first kiss, there’s a chance that you found it so special that you kept thinking about it even after a few days. It was on your mind, and it made you smile every time you remembered it.
Or maybe you were so excited for your partner to finally have the courage to kiss you that, when it happened, you felt fireworks inside your body. Everything was so special and pure that each time your mind was running wild, it went back to that kiss.
So why not make the best of it? The moment your partner wakes up, kiss them; it will put them in a good mood. And when they’re getting ready for work, just when they’re about to go out the door, pull them closer and kiss them for 2-5 minutes. Don’t rush; just enjoy the moment. Trust me, it will make them think about canceling their plans and staying home with you, enjoying each other’s company.
And that’s how you keep your SO thinking about you all day: with a simple kiss. Believe me: you’ll be on their mind all day long!
3. Send them a pic
This tip works anytime, and if you really, really want them to have you on their mind 24/7, it’s time to get creative and put those photographer skills to use!
You can tease them with almost anything, from a delectable dessert you know they enjoy to what awaits them when they return home: YOU. Put on a special outfit and get ready to pose because you’ll be on their mind the minute they see what you’ve sent them.
Don’t worry; you don’t have to look or wear anything specific to achieve the desired effect. Be yourself, be creative, and they’ll definitely enjoy your effort!
P.S. If you want to spice things up and make them always have you on their mind, try to make different things special. For instance, check out these cute spoons for couples and use them next time you prepare dessert. It’s a little extra gesture, and it shows them how special they are to you!
4. Pay attention to details
Details really matter, especially if you want to always be on your partner’s mind. You already know that the secret to a healthy and happy relationship is having meaningful conversations, and although not many people believe it, this is really one of the best ways to make sure that you’re always on someone’s mind.
For instance, if you know that they like their coffee with almond milk, get up earlier in the morning and make them their favorite type of drink. They’ll surely appreciate it and think how lucky they are to be spoiled.
If you want to take it up a notch and be sure that you’ll be on their minds until they come back home, you can leave them a note in which you mention how much you love them. Pay attention to details, because they’re the key to someone’s mind and heart!
5. Be their friend
Everybody loves it when their partners are not only their lovers but also their friends. When you know that you can trust your significant other with everything that bothers you or makes you happy, you’re more likely to always have them on your mind, right?
That’s because people feel close to those they trust, respect, and love, and in my opinion, a relationship that’s based on friendship is the one that will pass the test of time.
So how can you do that, you might ask? When they want to talk to you about something, actively listen to what they’re saying, ask further questions if you have any, encourage them when they feel down, and motivate them to keep going and achieve their goals.
Friendship is another key to someone’s mind, so don’t neglect it!
6. Praise their physical talents
Intimacy is very important for couples, regardless of how often it happens. Speaking of that, some people are insecure about their performance, and that can happen for many reasons, such as their partners’ feedback, their thoughts on their physical appearance, their mood, their mentality, and so many other things.
But one thing’s for sure: everyone wants to be praised for how good they make you feel in the bedroom. So if you’re feeling a little frisky and want them to have you on their minds each and every single day, tell them exactly what you like about their performance and how it made you feel.
It might not seem very effective at first, but if you do that, they’ll think about you all day long, and they will be very excited to come home and surprise you with the exact same things you said you like about them. And that’s how you get 2 things at once: you’ll be on their minds, and you’ll also get some fun time.
7. Share your special secrets
Are you looking for an excellent way to spice things up and make your partner dream about you all day long? Here’s the deal: some people get shy when asked about their wildest dreams when it comes to physical activity, but there’s a way to make them open up: you tell them first.
If you tell them exactly what you want, how, why, and when, that’s the only thing that will be on their mind. This will give them the courage to share their thoughts with you, and knowing exactly what’s on your mind, they’ll be very excited to come home and turn your frisky dreams into reality. If you don’t believe me, try it! But I warn you: things are about to get a little special!
…Do you think that your date went well, and do you know they’re getting ready to ask you out again? Find out here: 9 Signs They Will Ask For a Second Date!