4. Ludus (Playful Love)
Can you remember the first dates with your partner or your first encounters with them? There was something electric about it, right? There are more types of love, but Ludus is the ruler of young love and that playful teasing that happens at the beginning of any relationship.
This is long before all the seriousness starts. It’s all about the thrill and excitement you get when you have a crush on someone or when you first get to know them better. The main theme of this type of love is to discover and have fun. Flirt and feel the giddiness.
Even if Ludus has some Eros in it, keep in mind that it is something totally different. This playful affection is different from the raw passion of Eros. Is the thing that sparks your curiosity about a new person. You want to know everything about them and also have fun together.
In long-term relationships, playfulness is an essential aspect that is frequently lost. However, being playful is one of the keys to maintaining the youthful quality of your love, which is actually what makes it vibrant, fascinating, and thrilling. Old couples who manage to keep the Ludus alive are said to be happier and more fulfilled.
