Their fantasies
“Everyone fantasizes about someone other than their partner now and then – lots while they’re actually having sex with them!” says British relationship expert Tracey Cox. But who would admit such a thing? Certainly not men. For fear of hurting or angering their partners, men don’t even want to admit to having fantasies of any kind.
This might be one of those cases when it’s best to avoid telling the truth, or at least omit certain details, should a partner ask about it. After all, no one would like to know that their partner is thinking about someone else while in bed with them.