Their Late Spouse’s Photos Are Still All Over Their Home
When dating a widower, you would obviously expect some evidence of their late partner in their home. A few picture frames, especially with the family, make total sense. But when the person you’re dating has made a shrine in their house, you can’t compete with that.
You don’t want to rush into anything, taking each step in the relationship one at a time. But if you can’t bring furniture or decorations when you move in and the person demands you leave everything as their spouse had it, alarm bells should go off in your head.
We’re not saying you should be demanding. On the other hand, you can’t keep quiet either. Standing up for your needs is vital in any healthy relationship. Be sure to speak with the widower you’re dating and address your concerns and needs.
Don’t move in if they don’t want you to touch any decor that belonged to their deceased spouse. It’s a surefire sign that they’re not ready to let the person go.
