They Disappear For Long Periods Of Time
If you’re dating a widower and they suddenly disappear for days or even weeks at a time, it’s definitely a red flag you shouldn’t ignore. It could simply indicate that they’re having a hard time dealing with their grief and need some time alone to process what they’re feeling.
But it could also be a tell-tale sign that they’re not ready to enter a new relationship. Whatever the case may be, you shouldn’t have to carry all this weight or pass it off as a normal thing because they need to deal with their grief.
You’re in this relationship as well, and you deserve to be treated with respect.