5. No previous partner drama

That’s a little hard to ask, but not impossible, and it works both ways! If you’re with a person who’s been in a longer relationship, such as a marriage, and they probably have children together, they’re still going to talk and see each other regarding their actual relationship.

However, things get weird when one of the exes doesn’t like the new partner of the person they’ve been with, so they start talking bad about them or tell their kids how their mom or dad shouldn’t be with that new person. That’s 100% drama, and it can build tension in the new couple really quickly!

I’ve read different stories on Reddit about divorcees who started dating other people, and one man said that one time he was supposed to go on a date with his new partner, but that woman couldn’t make it because her ex-husband called her to help him with something around the house. I totally understand the need for someone you trust, but when it involves old and new couples, I think boundaries are a must!

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