No.5: They ONLY want to be intimate and nothing else
This is the reverse of the previous point, and it also counts just as much, if not more, when you are looking at a case where a partner has fallen out of love with the other. If your lover has been showing interest in you only when you are going to be intimate with one another, that is not a sign of excessive love but rather of its absence.
No matter how you look at it, if one of the partners in a relationship is only seeking physical gratification, there is a problem. Especially when they go out of their way to no longer have meaningful conversations, fun date nights, or even small things like going out for dinner.
Of course, physical attraction and healthy life in this aspect are important to keep the intimacy levels satisfied and alive, but when the relationship turns into only about this type of intimacy, it can become a problem. Particularly if this is the only way you feel connected to your partner.
It could be a sign that they have fallen out of love, and you should try to talk to them if this is how you feel!
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I’ve been told by six women over the years the love story, the woman factor changes like the weather. “Good for as long as I dig it.” Otherwise, it’s out the door M/F. It’s been my life’s experience that you cannot trust most women. That’s the truth, like it or not. A woman is here today and gone tomorrow. A man may never know what page they are on, surprises always come up. Some of the problem could be the hormone factor, gets uncontrollable, they just go wild and crazy. Start having sex out of their marriage and so on, then act like there’s nothing wrong. “Marriage vows are in fact plain Bull Shit.” I like why waste your time and energy stating vows that are gone tomorrow. My take on it.