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10 Things Women Want in Bed but Won’t Tell You

27 November 2023 · 8 min read
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1. Going slow

One of the most important things women want in bed is for you to move slowly. You probably know that women take longer than men to get in the mood, so why rush a good thing?

The slower you move, the more passionate everything will be, and when you feel that they can’t wait any longer, that’s when you can speed up. While it might not be true for every single woman in the world, moving slowly, kissing them every step of the way, and making sure that they feel good and cared for is going to be mind-blowing in the end.

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92 responses to “10 Things Women Want in Bed but Won’t Tell You”

  1. Alexander says:
    26 December 2023 at 15:15

    Very interesting article and especially important for young men to read to have a life-long pleasure.

    Reply
  2. Steve Ciullo says:
    11 February 2024 at 21:30

    Great artical, now what things are men most likely to want or need. I can only speak for myself when it comes to this. Bur I’d like to learn what “most” men would like. May learn to ask for a few new or frisky moves to add to my routine.

    Reply
  3. Monique says:
    15 February 2024 at 16:36

    I want the guys side of this article, because I need help with giving guys what they might want.

    Reply
  4. Jik McSemen says:
    10 May 2024 at 00:52

    There are a few other things that women love that will excite them in bed that you left out

    11) Invite another woman, especially if she’s more attractive than your mate to join and have fun
    12) Make it bigger; size matters to a woman, the bigger the member, the better she will feel, especially if she’s a short, small, skinny woman.
    13) Go down; women love it when men go to the woman’s dungeon to give her what she wants and needs, it’s a turn off to a woman if a man refuses, or if she doesn’t have a pleasant smell in the basement.
    14) Go to the lavoratory on an airplane; so much fun and excitement, especially when there’s turbulence and both the man and the woman (especially a plus sized woman) are jumping up and down.

    I hope you enjoy the suggestions.

    Reply
  5. BLAKE REYKER says:
    7 June 2024 at 09:32

    Load of crap

    Reply
  6. Pauline Jordan says:
    12 June 2024 at 01:34

    I’d love to read part 2 of this and what men want in bed

    Reply
  7. Thomas Benn says:
    12 June 2024 at 03:09

    This is nice and insightful info, even though some of it I was already aware of. Thanks.

    Send me part two please

    Reply
  8. Denise Delamar says:
    13 June 2024 at 22:35

    Can’t wait to read part 2

    Reply
  9. Cynthia Nix says:
    15 June 2024 at 03:00

    You should never tease an autistic individual or it will backfire on you (teasing an autistic individual will always give you devastating results!)

    Reply
  10. Pam says:
    11 July 2024 at 13:25

    What do men want in bed

    Reply
  11. Elizabeth Ann Rupe says:
    11 July 2024 at 15:42

    I don’t know what I want because I’m 61 and never had a boyfriend so I don’t know if I want to share my bed with anyone

    Reply
  12. Kate says:
    11 July 2024 at 17:38

    Yes, want to hear what men wantin bed

    Reply
  13. David Faerber says:
    11 July 2024 at 20:17

    Love the info…send me more

    Reply
  14. Charles Barefoot says:
    13 July 2024 at 13:19

    This all sounds Very Interesting and I would like to learn more about the things that a woman wants in the bedroom

    Reply
  15. Erick Mann says:
    14 July 2024 at 02:08

    Women like a man with a great sense of humor. sex is very intense, but breaking the ice is good too! even when you’re joined sex is healthy and a wonderful experience sometimes it can be awkward but seize the moment! Laughter can make a big difference in your relationship!

    I can’t tell you some of my most intimate moments that were very funny where we were both laughing so hard, we had tears coming forth and it was at the height of passion, but it made it greater in the moment at that time!

    So Laugh enjoy each other, enjoy the gift of sex God gave us as men and women.
    It’s a beautiful relationship between man and woman, “husband and Wife!” <

    Reply
  16. No name says:
    14 July 2024 at 05:52

    I think I have loved almost everything because when you love you only want to make the person you love happy.

    Reply
  17. John Russo says:
    15 July 2024 at 01:12

    very good informative article. Men need to understand what women want and not just some hardcore sex with no love. All the things suggested in the article are ways to make your partner feel wanted and not just a another round of sex to satisfy some guy. Imagine you just had sex and the woman gets up and leaves you there to go watch TV and get a snack. Doesn’t say much for you does it. Woman want that attention before, during and after. Talk to her, kiss her all over, tell her how good she is makes you feel. Sometimes a woman may nit rah orgasm but still enjoys what you do. You can always try new methods and things to help her enjoy it more. Over the year I learned from some women what they enjoy and makes the feel good. I do most of what’s in the article but I will always let the woman guide me as to what next step is. When you meet a new woman and she is ready to jump your bones let her decide what she wants to do. more times than not she forgo foreplay and just wants you inside her. Once you get there you can back off and start slowly kissing and talking to her and using different methods to satisfy her. Just a thought from experience you have try different sexual things and let her show you what she wants to do. Some women may not want to do things you do on first date. Go sow and enjoy it.

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  18. Ezmerlda says:
    12 August 2024 at 18:46

    What do men want most in bed?

    Reply
  19. Lynn says:
    12 August 2024 at 20:16

    I’m sharing this with my spouse After years together, this is a good reminder.

    Reply
  20. NMS says:
    13 August 2024 at 04:02

    What men need in bed?

    Reply
  21. Roger Korth says:
    13 August 2024 at 19:01

    A sense of humor! After thirty years of wedded bliss nature has neutered me. My gorgeous body gone, my shiny brown hair, now sparce and gray, my sinewy muscles lost between flab and stretched tendons.

    My only remaining asset is my ability to not only laugh ,it have my wife entertained by my humor as we snicker and giggle at life’s blows.

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  22. Nancy Vanmeter says:
    13 August 2024 at 19:19

    I would like to know more

    Reply
  23. BJ Wightman says:
    13 August 2024 at 20:21

    The only comment that I agree with is #10: Take Control. The rest of them are just lots of hot air. Women want the ‘hawt’ alpha male with the good body for their bedroom fun. Most women are not attractive enough to get and hold a ‘hawt’ alpha male so they settle for a much less attractive beta male for his financial support. This article was clearly written as advice for the beta males.

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  24. Aretha I McCrary says:
    13 August 2024 at 23:00

    please continue

    Reply
  25. Franklin says:
    14 August 2024 at 19:13

    Women often complain that, men r a 2 minute nan, r they don’t concentrate on their need r satisfaction! When he does, then he just wants that, quickies r a quick nut! She complains! I’m sorry it takes her so long to warm up/ get n the proper mood. For men it’s a catch 22. U take ur time & do every thing to be sure that she is satisfied to ur knowledge! But then after the ultimate is sealed, u forgot to hug r cuddle her! U failed

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  26. Chuck says:
    14 August 2024 at 21:03

    So what are the 10 things! My wife has been very cold and I need some help, it’s not me and she is not hiding anything that I know of !

    Reply
  27. Judy says:
    15 August 2024 at 00:52

    Would love to see 10 thing men want n bed.

    Reply
  28. Elifue Agbi says:
    16 August 2024 at 17:37

    Oh yes?

    Reply
  29. Elifue Agbi says:
    16 August 2024 at 17:38

    Oh yes!

    Reply
  30. Sally Johnson says:
    28 August 2024 at 06:05

    Nothing is worse than kissing someone with bad breath. Or have them blow their exhale breathing in your face.

    Reply
  31. Bree says:
    13 October 2024 at 09:02

    You forgot the part where he has to lick it before he sticks it. Very important!! You can’t just put it in slowly or quickly and the magic happens. Doesn’t work like that.

    Reply
  32. Leon Dyson says:
    16 October 2024 at 19:47

    Very informative article.

    Reply
  33. Lavelle says:
    16 October 2024 at 21:34

    Need info

    Reply
  34. Lila Foster says:
    16 October 2024 at 22:56

    You forgot the most important thing. Foreplay before you hop into bed. A little stroking in the car or the movies or while watching tv is very sexy.

    Reply
  35. Barry says:
    17 October 2024 at 00:04

    Women want to be on top.

    Reply
    • Julian says:
      6 December 2025 at 11:50

      Not always.

      Reply
    • Julian says:
      6 December 2025 at 11:51

      My lady is quite happy to be on the bottom

      Reply
  36. SUQITA JAMAKUM ABDULLAH says:
    17 October 2024 at 00:14

    I truly would like to know what men want in bed because I feel sometimes, they just rushing through and it’s their manly duty.

    Reply
  37. L Chan says:
    19 October 2024 at 17:50

    Nope!

    Reply
  38. Torita Walls says:
    20 October 2024 at 19:48

    I read the story. I wonder if is about what women want in bed, or what white women want in bed. I saw the pictures of women, but NO ONE looked like me. I saw a man who was not white of course, but he was with a white woman. I am pretty certain that the writer of the article may just want to keep his or her woman happy. Good for you! I will remember Detangle Love and will ignore you from now on. If possible I will unsubscribe. I have to protect my beautiful Black self from all white trash anywhere I find it.

    Reply
  39. yolanda drew says:
    27 October 2024 at 21:48

    Would like the man’s article. Good work now I won’t have to tell him because he is for sure clueless.

    Reply
  40. Francisco J Toro says:
    2 December 2024 at 15:31

    None. Enjoy it!!!

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  41. MICHAEL MYERS says:
    3 January 2025 at 16:04

    A woman loves to be eaten out in bed! I know that for a fact!

    Reply
  42. Michael Torres says:
    3 January 2025 at 17:50

    “10 Things Women Want In Bed” is great information. Please send more helpful articles. I truly appreciate it.

    Reply
  43. Bill says:
    3 January 2025 at 19:18

    You failed to mention a big d*ck. Another thing women won’t tell you but every one of them wants. They even compare you to others when they’re talking with their friends so don’t think that every girlfriend of hers doesn’t know your size.

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  44. Perry says:
    3 January 2025 at 21:14

    Thanks. Very basic (well I am old and have learned most of these). I would love to see Part 2.

    Reply
  45. Brenda says:
    4 January 2025 at 02:03

    Part 2 and what men want.
    Thank you

    Reply
  46. Jill says:
    5 January 2025 at 01:54

    All very true. I’d like to know what men want in bed.

    Reply
  47. martin says:
    9 January 2025 at 22:30

    Always, always assure she cums first. Period.

    Reply
  48. Matthew Burzynski says:
    11 January 2025 at 03:26

    Great article I loved reading this very interesting information

    Reply
  49. Liz says:
    11 January 2025 at 13:45

    How about trying for an orgasm once in a while? We take longer and require just the right touch. Men seldom take the lead in this. Sad!

    Reply
  50. Penny says:
    11 January 2025 at 16:08

    What do men like

    Reply
  51. Barry says:
    11 January 2025 at 20:35

    Thanks

    Reply
  52. Laureen Seaman says:
    11 January 2025 at 21:36

    Would like more specificity. Would also like to see what men like in bed

    Reply
  53. Randy says:
    11 January 2025 at 22:41

    Thank you for the comments,

    Reply
  54. Terrie Amundson says:
    11 January 2025 at 22:51

    I ’d love part two of this article,

    Reply
  55. Karen says:
    11 January 2025 at 23:00

    This is so true!

    Reply
  56. Denny Antram says:
    11 January 2025 at 23:12

    Sounds like some GREAT information that I NEED To know !

    Reply
  57. Beatrice S Hiner says:
    11 January 2025 at 23:26

    I enjoyed reading this artical, what about what men want in bed.

    Reply
  58. Jerald Hughes says:
    12 January 2025 at 00:32

    All ten things you advised to help ones love life with the one your with is very assume… Everyone wants to feel they are special with each other… One has to talk to each other to understand what each likes from their relationship… Great article….

    Reply
  59. Barbara says:
    12 January 2025 at 12:53

    Great lessons to be learned here I will send to my husband as after 13 years a lot has disappeared however I decided to take control so please advise on what men preferred
    Thank you

    Reply
  60. Katherine says:
    12 January 2025 at 15:02

    All so true

    Reply
  61. Katherine says:
    12 January 2025 at 17:09

    So true

    Reply
  62. Kimberly Malone says:
    13 January 2025 at 01:42

    I really liked the info and totally agree with it. I would certainly like to hear about the man’s side of what he wants.

    Reply
  63. Vinod Yagnik says:
    19 January 2025 at 05:48

    I fully agree to what has been said.
    Yes I wish to be guided by your expertise.

    Reply
  64. Milton Williams says:
    26 January 2025 at 23:33

    Excellent ideas.

    Reply
  65. Milton Williams says:
    26 January 2025 at 23:34

    This was some great information. Please keep it coming.

    Reply
  66. RE says:
    27 January 2025 at 04:27

    What a woman or a man wants in bed is their partner to make them feel special. My brothers out there put her needs above yours in the bed room and trust me your needs will be more than fulfilled.

    Reply
  67. David Unknown says:
    9 February 2025 at 02:59

    Ok teach me

    Reply
  68. David Unknown says:
    9 February 2025 at 03:00

    Must be nice

    Reply
  69. Mileen says:
    9 February 2025 at 11:24

    Men that really care about sucessful bedroom activity will read about how to satify a woman because he should know to satify her that he will be satified too. Talking in the bedroom about sexual activities takes away from a sensual moment.

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  70. Jhonson says:
    9 February 2025 at 18:15

    Nice “fountain” reference!!!! I love to see a fountain spraying everywhere!!!

    Reply
  71. daniel ray jones says:
    10 February 2025 at 15:19

    yes

    Reply
  72. Steve Brockopp says:
    10 February 2025 at 16:16

    Women don’t even know what they want, so how can a man expect to know?

    Reply
  73. Yvonne Jackson says:
    10 February 2025 at 16:45

    I would like the article titled What men would want in bed
    By Arinna.

    Reply
  74. Marcia sturtevant says:
    10 February 2025 at 18:02

    Asking for article about what men want.

    Reply
  75. Louis Bergoglio says:
    11 February 2025 at 18:48

    Women want money…
    sent to the holy see
    for poor holy father
    to spend traveling
    and drinking beer

    Reply
  76. Lynn Lovvorn says:
    20 March 2025 at 16:26

    Hi I would like more on the “What men want in bed”

    Thanks,
    Lynn

    Reply
  77. Suzi says:
    21 March 2025 at 00:37

    Loved this article! I was looking around for the “fly on the wall”. You nailed it! We’ve been married for 39 years next month. Sex was always, ah, 10 minutes, TOPS. Felt great, while there, but I always hoped for more substance! He stopped coming anywhere near me 3 years ago. When I ask, he’s tired or aches, or running late, or sore, or got things on his mind, or …..

    Reply
  78. Dana says:
    21 March 2025 at 10:30

    Very true! Thank you
    And what do men want?

    Reply
  79. Barbie Andrews says:
    21 March 2025 at 13:09

    Enjoyed the article! Would love to hear what men want in bed!

    Reply
  80. Cheryl says:
    21 March 2025 at 14:44

    Would like to read about what men want…

    Reply
  81. Cindy Pedraza says:
    21 March 2025 at 14:51

    what men would want in bed

    Reply
  82. Christopher Gworek says:
    21 March 2025 at 19:05

    Good article, and helpful with the right partner.

    Reply
  83. Debra L Herbert says:
    21 March 2025 at 21:19

    I Really Like reading about these thing!!!!!!! Thank You So Very Much!!!!!
    Now I would Love to read about what men want!!!!!! Please:):):)
    I will keep you informed.
    And I would like to let you know that my husband has done some of these thing you have suggested & OHOHOHOH YES They Do Work!!!
    So Men Lision You Will Be Happy You Did:):):)?:)

    Ms. H
    From The Desert .

    Reply
  84. Matthew says:
    23 March 2025 at 03:11

    Oh yea they want in bed but wont tell you. Do I loo like doggon Mandrake the magician, women brains are like a spider web that’s the bloddy problem, then to state that they love to multi task. If Adam didn’t eat after she wouldda turn into a pillar of Salt

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  85. Matthew says:
    23 March 2025 at 03:17

    Oh Oh saying their name will get you over the waterfall great, what about saying another woman’s name Huh that would really speed things up like a cheetah. How about that, because while you are in bed and you leave to go wash your face 99% of the time another man is in your bed, why because Satan rule you all, plus look out for the faster lie outta their mouths

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  86. Matthew says:
    23 March 2025 at 03:44

    Take care of their needs: 97% of women will always go astray, because the holy book says it’s hard hard to find a virtuous woman. Imagine a man will give everything he has to make a woman happy, take her out anywhere and there she see’s another woman with a bigger Diamond ring and that can tear your relationship apart. Isn’t it true that women brains are like a Spider web once you touch it all cylinders start sparking but a man usually focus on one thing at a time, like box, now if that’s the case how the hell can you take care of her needs, when in actually women focus on their WANTS
    Cuddling: Huh! yea with a Big A…..s python around her neck

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  87. Kay says:
    7 April 2025 at 21:59

    I definitely want to know what a man wants! Please send! ❤️😉

    Reply
  88. Yvonne says:
    8 April 2025 at 06:43

    Mmh, interesting. Enjoyed reading this.

    Reply
  89. Michael Cox says:
    9 August 2025 at 12:26

    Please send

    Reply
  90. Rich says:
    22 August 2025 at 19:38

    Enjoyed reading this, many of the things mentioned I have already tried and what a response…. Best ever.

    Reply

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