1. He never has time for you (even on his free days)
When you suggest doing something together, he ALWAYS has something more important to do than what you just said, so he does things on his own. If you insist on asking him to make time for the relationship, he gets angry and even worse, he seems like he is going to make a huge sacrifice and will end up complaining even more afterwards.
When a husband acts in this manner, it is usually because he is not interested in hearing you brag about topics that are not of interest to him. But if you can convince him to start with baby steps and spend at least 30 minutes a day with you without any distractions, that’s a good start! Begin by making a list of things you want to talk about and make sure you ask him about his interests as well.
2. He avoids you very often!
You’ve been living in the same house for years now, but your husband seems like he is no longer interested in your company. Most of the time, he finds other things to do, or worse, he wants to spend time with his friends more often than usual. And the very moment you’re asking him why he’s behaving like that, BOOM! His nerves are pushed to the limit! and a sudden fight begins.
This kind of behavior is pretty toxic, and nobody should do that to their spouse. If you notice this in your husband’s demeanor, try to persuade him to sit down and have an open conversation like two adults are supposed to have! This might bring you the interior peace you need and let you see if your marriage can be saved or not.
