Big eyeglasses
Big frames and oversized glasses might be super trendy right now, but not if you ask a man. Apparently, they find these sunglasses overpowering and distracting. Men would rather see eyeglasses that enhance the face than dominate it. For most of the men we’ve talked with, subtlety is what really matters.
Wimples
You probably didn’t hear about this particular fashion approach, but this man’s opinion is definitely the cherry on the cake. Apparently, men are extremely opposed to the simple, which is a traditional head covering initiated by nuns and women from religious orders. They said they would rather be single than date a woman with a wimple. Well, talk about an opinionated man! If you ask me, it might be a bit TOO opinionated.
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AND because men don’t like these clothing choices, what, we shouldn’t wear them. Think again. The day a woman dresses for a man is not happening. Screw that. Who cares what “they” like or don’t like. I dress how I want and that’s it.
And who says they dress how we’d want anyway. Most cannot put together two things if they came together.
A women always has the option to dress, to please herself. I have the 0ption to like or reject it and
keep my opinion to. My self.
Men don’t care about you either.
How many cats do you plan to spend your single, solo retirement with? You should start planning now for this inevitable aspect of your future.
Most women like men to look at them therefore dress nice for them and themselves
Jenn, most men know that women dress for other women and not for men.
Totally agree 100%
Now that is what I like most in a woman. A woman who knows what she likes and does exactly that no matter what. Especially, if she does it in 4 inch patent leather pumps.
No one said that you or any woman shouldn’t wear whatever they want. These are merely opinions. Why did you get triggered into a mini rant? My money says you are a very unhappy feminist. Good luck with that !
Yes, The days of dressing for men are over.
Congrats – to single woman forever !
Guess your single since you have no respect for a man’s opinion. In my relationship. we have good communication and respect each other’s opinions. If my other makes a request about my outfit .I respect it and change most of the time .I hate scarves and she doesn’t get angry at me because I don’t like them .She takes them off sometimes and sometimes not . That goes for me also pending of wear we are going .Starts with respects and ends with it is how our relationship works .Maybe you ought to try it sometime.🙃 Good luck
You said it sister!
Exactly, I agree
Jenn, Xanax, for goodness sake. You sound like a man hater. Also, there, I’m sure, are plenty of articles about things men wear that women hate. I saw wear what makes YOU comfortable but I’m just a man.
Most women dress to impress other women. It is NOT a sexual thing, just a “one up on you”. I enjoy looking at well dressed women, they are beautiful. I also enjoy looking at vehicles (cars and pick ups) and firearms, they too are easy on the eyes.
I agree with you! Not their business.
Bitter?
Well, I do! If I am wearing things that a man that I am card doesn’t like then maybe I won’t wear it; at least not around him! Or do things around him! I would want that from him!
It’s called being a good girlfriend!
What about what men wear? Ii I want to know what a man likes, I’ll ask them myself. As far as what I wear, I don’t really worry about what a man thinks. As long it pleases me and doesn’t restrict my movement that’s all that.
One might want to consider the article and where it is written, the term love, it means putting the others needs or likes above your own. That’s love. So if this article was written in feminist weekly. Then your viewpoint would be spot on. But it was written in a place to discover what your potential spouse or mate would like or dislike. And as to “most men can’t put two pieces of clothing together “…… you might want to look at the top designers. Many are men. So………? Who knew?
I am a jeans and tennis shoes kind of person. I haven’t worn a dress or high heels since I was in my teens, and now I am a Baby Boomer. I like comfort.
Me too!
While I agree with a lot of these things, I still do not care to factor in other people’s opinions when it comes to how I dress. Sometimes I’ll wear something baggy because it’s comfortable, and I definitely do that more often during my bloaty time of month. I don’t care for judgement on matters like that. I also don’t care about wasting money on higher priced clothing that’s only more expensive because of the name brand. Hey, as long as we’re wearing stuff that’s not impractical or filthy then who cares?
Ditto. Jeans and tshirts my favorite
In my day we wore hip-hugger bell bottoms with halter tops… it was all about freedom and relaxation. I could wear a halter sun dress with bare feet and wow them. It all depends because it’s personality and different strokes for different folks. Just like most guys don’t like a lot of make-up on women. I’ve never worn a lot of make-up. If you feel comfortable with what you are wearing then it’s easy to glow and be naturally attractive.
I wear sun dresses for comfort and hate skinny jeans. I like platform heels or sneakers most of the time.
still single then
Yes, me too. Jeans and sneakers. I have these real cute wedge/platform sneakers in pink and one in black & whiteI haven’t worn a dress in decades and high heels either.
Me too
Not even to a wedding?
better comment than jen and it sounds cool.
And I think that’s great! I dress casually too, also a Boomer and I like a woman to be comfortable. As I understand that word it doesn’t include high heels, tight clothes, accessories…all that BS. So there! 🙂
I am retired, live in Florida, and my dress code is usually shorts, and sandals. I like comfort. I do put on a dress, when the occasion calls for it, however, I still wear sandals.
You can look Sexy in Jeans and tennis shoes. It’s up to you if you think very much of him and want the relationship to work. I’m a baby Boomer too. I wear Skinny Jeans and a sexy top for someone that thinks a lot about me.
I am a guy, and am delighted to hear your “fashion choices”, such as they can be called. When a woman, When a woman is comfortable with herself I am more comfortable with them. I think that most men are like this. These “new blips”, always written in generalities (Boomers don’t like this…Gen Y folk can’t stand that, the “Greatest Generation” set high standards that nobody today can live up to”, et al, ad nauseam). This is a not very rational away to think, and it caters to herd mentality thinking (IMHO), which I don’t much care for. I wish that the general interest articles on-line were better written and thought out. They often have what strikes me as an authoritarian tone. People are better off thinking for themselves than following online “think pieces”. I find that they always seemed written for not very bright Web people, but that’s me,–and no, I’m not holding myself and/or my opinions above others. Just sayin’, for want of a better phrase.
Self Comfort is golden!
Comfortable clothes. Exactly!
Totally agree!!
who do you dress for, if not to look good to men…
This is why you most likely will be single forever. Go to the local shelter, pick up a few pussies. That’s your life in the future if you do not change your ways.
Hey Jen you sound pleasant, when is the last time you went on a date?
Jenn. No offense But we (women) have been dressing for men for centuries!! I dress for me and I occasionally ask my husband for which shoes go best with my outfit. His opinion is usually spot on!!
It isn’t an edict or an obligation – it is simply information to use or ignore. I wouldn’t object to finding out what women like in men’s clothes, What is the harm?
I conquer! What a sexist article–right out of the Stone Age!
“Who cares what ‘they’ like or don’t like”
Any woman who respects or wants a man.
I agree. There is too much emphasis on how people look. I want someone to respect me for who I am. Excuse me, but this is BS. I’ve spent most my life trying to please others with my “look” and it has gotten me nowhere.
Wow…….angry MUCH Jenn ?
Good Lord, you sound like a fun person to be around.
It was a goofy little article significant of not much and it triggered you.
Take a chill pill, Ma’m.
And your stated opinion is kind of a disgusting attitude. I’ve always noticed that in a singles setting, a guy dresses and hopes to look attractive to single women, but all the women are more concerned about and in competition with other women, never out for an evening to notice and speak with men. So yes your right, women already don’t give a rats ass about men or what they think, seems very lesbo-like. And don’t reply back and disparage me, I’m 6ft, have never been intimidated by women’s high-heels and never rejected for a date when I ask. If a woman only cares what other women wear, then stay home.
You must be single. My wife is always sending me back to change something I’ve put on that doesn’t look good or doesn’t match. And you should lose the “I am woman hear me roar” attitude. A relationship is a two way street. Both should try to keep each other happy.
I am guessing you are single!
And that is why you do not have a man and are a so-called feminist…
Hear, hear! I feel the same way!
Good for you fo wearing what you like, Plain and Simple, enjoy life’s Good.. ciao 🌹🦅
It’s really sad that some people don’t understand how to interpret information. You don’t need to conform to what most men might like! We are different, and the article offers a glimpse of what your mate might not like, in case you cared! Or in case you were looking for someone who appreciates YOU taking interest in their likes. After all, if you don’t care of what your mate or potential mate, might find offensive… enjoy your lonely life!
I feel the same way about my back hair. Enjoy all the cofee dates, moron. I doubt you’ll get a steak dinner from an actual man, but that’s OK! You don’t need a man! That’s good because YOU WON’T ATTRACT ONE. You’ll get some soy boy, which is probably more than you deserve.
1. Good luck ever having a soul mate.
2. I like for my wife to pick what she would like for me to wear quite often. She does the same with me.
3. Insults and inappropriate dressing a woman can display shows care for herself, professional modesty, or she wants to wear and act like a slut.
4. 7 of the 10 best dressed men in the world are all Veterans. I spent 10 years in the military and when I dress up to impress my wife, she is always pleased.
5. Hope you have a nice long life living alone.
How do you explain that the most renowned women’s fashion desighners are all men
Good point! Does this include Short Hair vs. Long Hair? In my 69 years of life and 39 years of marriage. The average woman looks more beautiful in long hair. I mentioned this just last night to six women at work. Scripture says hair is in a sense their glory. Bottom line some things look better on some people than others. This includes men. Yet, I accept what others want dress in. Everybody has a personal thing about what they see someone wearing. Have a great day!
I love my man, while I don’t dress to please him, it there is something he doesn’t like, then I won’t wear it! It’s called being a woman! I mean women don’t want to just be women! They don’t want to cook and clean any more or be a good WIFE AND MOTHER ANYMORE! I THINK THERE IS A FOOTBALLER SAID IT BEST,AND LET’S GET BACK TO MORALS!
I am a man and agree with you 100%, not sure why I am even reading this nonsense.
Thank you for telling because I was gonna😂
Absolutely like we are put on this earth to dress for them! Sick how about we bitch about what they wear and how fat they have gotten after having babies etc. Keep being yourself and wear what you want is my feelings.
the day a man dresses tp please a women is the saddest day in a mans life …
You must be currently wearing something too tight?
Most men don’t care if women with your attitude exist, much less dress for them.
Oh yes. The typical feminist, quick to despise and reject men’s preferences… but if this was an article about what women prefer men wear, you wouldn’t have any objections to that now would you?
Jenn,
Remember this article is simply reporting survey results on what men do and do not find appealing, for those who want to know what men think. If you’re a proud, strong woman (probably single) good for you…just don’t read the article.
It is very clear that you do not like men.
I am with you 100%. I dress for myself, not to impress any man. Who cares what they think. I’ve been married for 30 years and still going. He loves me then and still does now. Sure is not the clothes that’s doing it.
Signed, 38 and alone…
IKR….I clicked on this to go right to the comments. Who the F$$$ cares what men want. They can go find a dummy copy of their mom’s who should have left them with the Dad’s if they don’t like what a woman’s choice to do with HER GOD GIVING BODY. If God is a woman they are DONE for. While out cheating with what you don’t want you woman to be. G.T.F.O.H….
My fiance dresses for me. She asks me to pick out outfits for her. She loves to wear what I love to see on her. She is respectful and doesn’t go around showing off when she isn’t with me. I also respect her choice in garment as well because I know I have her heart. Women wearing something for their man are still here, alive and well. The days of Men controlling what their partner wears are long gone however.
Women dress for other women, it is a competition who can look better than others. Women are vain and try to look better than other women. Don’t kid me.
You are so full of defending yourself. You appear to have no observance of how many men dress uncomfortably because somebody else wants it. We do a lot in order to please others.
To Jenn Day:
I’ve been married for 34 years, and I ONLY dress how she wants me to look. She dresses just fine for me, I don’t really care, as long as she knows I think she looks good.
Means you have no need for men. No wonder in the days of DEI and affirmative action crap. Sounds like a toxic woman. or a bull dyke
Women are free to wear of course whatever they want. But if their desire (And might not be) to attract a man, wearing skirts is usually better than pants. Wearing their hair down is better than short. Wearing high heels (Not if have to walk much) is always desirable. And at night (If with a man) short nighties are far preferable to pajamas.
A lady should dress however she pleases. But if she wants to be PLEASING in the bedroom, she should think of the kind of attire that would best put her and her man in the mood.
I Love the way you said it! I wear what ever I want who gives shit what man wants.
women are so mean. why are women so unnecessarily rude? I don’t buy for a minute that you don’t care if a man cares.
If you went a whole year and never had a man ever looked your way or gave you a compliment, your man or others, you would begin to question what is wrong. 3 years not one compliment – just saying. Try being nice. Goes a long way
Women like you are what’s wrong with this world now, y’all DONT know yer place.
Put a sun dress on and make me a sandwich bitch!
Aww poor Jen! It’ll be ok! First off, BOTH SEXES dress for the other. You can lie to yourself all you want but it’s true. We all want to look good for whoever we’re with and vice versa. There’s nothing wrong with it either! So just calm down!
My opinion is, a woman can wear a potato sack and still look good.
Jenn you’re right, wear what YOU like. I do agree with men/ women who dislike:
1. nails longer than 1/16 inch – I always look AWAY upon seeing long nails.
2. too tight, too revealing, too short clothing. I rarely watch programs such as
“Love&Marriage Huntsville anymore because many necklines are TOO LOW,
skirts/pants TOO TIGHT & two ladies simply lack decency. The other ladies/men
are considerate & open to reason. Many HipHop programs need a dressover also.
And how many cats do you have again?
Dress the way it makes you feel comfortable. But then when you are married he might ask to dress for him alone out of the love you have for him
Wear what you want. We’ll look or ignore depending on what we like.
I just Like women to wear clothes that enhance their good features.
Same for men, btw.
I agree my thoughts exact!
i can tell you must be single and with that attitude, destined to stay that way. SOUR!
Wow! Horrible as men are, and of course fully deserving of this spray, it is curious that men care greatly what women think about what they wear, and they generally take great care to dress accordingly. Of course, that’s like the spider spreading its web to catch prey, so no virtue there, either. And yet I just can’t imagine any but the most embittered guy angrily criticising women for expressing a preference for men’s fashion. It’s almost inconceivable. So, what does that tell us?.
Look out…for that wall.
I would definitely make adjustments to please my husband. I love him and we are best friends.
And lot of woman way they dress brings the wrong attention with is bad on women but a lot of woman does not care that why that what happens to woman happens to them
All my male friends agree that they could care less what a woman wears at home or on the town.. It all is just another ploy to get women to BUY.
What about if you’re in a long-term relationship or even married? Us guys can be educated. Sorry if the article offended you.
What a said commentary! I’ll bet you don’t have a man, do you!?
My thoughts exactly. I’m with you.
Wearing them is your choice. If that’s what YOU like, then go for it. The article isn’t about you. It’s about what guys like and don’t like. The choice for what you decide to put on yourself is exclusively yours. No one is denying that.
LOL, my ex use to bring together some of the craziest, just because “they” had the same colors.
99% OF MEN WILL NOT “go beyound beige, blue, black colors. Oh, maybe some different tie ocassion, if celebrating. Wear what you are feeling @ the moment, is my motto! And do not ask him, “do I look fat in this?” OOOOOOhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, and do not tell him, I have to do my nails before we leave…….he will look @ ya like, “what?” Well. maybe he could have told ya, “we”re doing whatever, tonight.
Actually, unless you’ve dressed in a particularly absurd manner most men don’t really notice what you’re wearing all that much. When I was a teen our large family didn’t have a great deal of money to spend on fashion and my wardrobe was “limited” to say the least. Often on dates I was reduced to wearing my school uniform skirt and blouse sans the bolero, which I “dressed up” with a scarf. I actually believe I may have started that trend because I began doing this in 1947 before it was a thing. In any case, I was very popular and I doubt any boy paid all that much attention to my “fashion”. My aim was to always be neat and presentable and to conduct myself accordingly.
If you don’t care if you have a man or not. Then go for it. That is where I am at. But, if I did care. I would have some consideration for my wanted man’s feelings. That should be a two way street.
And that’s why you are single and unhappy
With that kind of attitude you may be sitting at home more than dating if you don’t care how they think or feel.
Right on!
You’re not going to wear those clothes just to make me a sandwich are you?
I think you will attract a man who does not care what you wear. If a man chooses to not be with you because you do not care about how he feels about what you wear. You have to learn to accept that as well. There is no point in being mad at any man because he doesn’t care for your opinion that his opinion and feelings do not matter to you. Right? If his opinion does not matter to you. Then that means he does not matter to you either.
I bet you are fat. You are just the sort who is or will be an old maid. Show a little pride in your appearance. In America, men and women are socialized to hate each others guts. Putin did a number on you. Show some backbone.
Thx Bob! I was an outcast at work of 24 people and particularly because I dressed very nice and clean for work.
The women, I couldn’t believe how slobby, out of shape, over weight, unkempt they were, and its health care! Im 67, the oldest of all and looked the best. Thx for your comment.
The point isn’t to tell you how to dress. the point is for you to know what men like and use that knowledge accordingly. A man will dress a certain way for a first date and a woman may choose to do that too. No one is demanding anything, it is simply knowledge for you to use. Maybe you might want to wear something special on Valentine’s Day, or maybe you don’t. This article simply informs your decision and nothing more.
To all of my “sisters” who posted comments here- all I have to say is: RETWEET 🙌🏼
Also- how insulting. And double also- when I want their opinion- or anybody’s- I ask. If not….what other people think of me -or my outfit- is none of my business!
I dress for people and I’m a man. I don’t need to tell her what to wear. She knows what I like. And I know what she likes me to wear. We dress to compliment each other. Of course if you have no one like this, well there you are.
So if an 80-year-old woman wants to go to a grocery store in nothing but a thong bikini, no one should criticize her because she simply feels comfortable wearing almost nothing?
Absolutely perfect!!. Could not have said it better myself!!. Great Job telling them where to stick it!!.
Written by a cow that men won’t look at lol. This was written for you. Take the advice. It makes you feel good to look nice. have some pride in your appearance. You would not wear a grass skirt or tribal decor as worn in some cultures. You can wear what is fashionable in today’s American society and you might be pleasantly surprised. Trying to buck the system & say I am a “strong independent woman” is overrated. There is nothing wrong with being yourself, but you do not need to dress like a side show attraction. Again no one is forcing you to do anything the article just took the time to conduct research to see what the opposite sex finds appealing. Really isn’t that what you spend all the time & effort shopping & applying makeup perfume & wardrobe for? Compliments are nice. Try it 🙂
Must we dress like weather girls 24/7 rain or shine?
i agree…. who makes these stupid lists telling me what i should like or not like.
i dont care what a woman wears …
except for sponge bob jammies at walmart
Wow, are you married? Just saying…if you wouldn’t dress to please your boyfriend or husband, pray tell just who would you dress for?
Ah fashion! Almost as bad as the housing trends of making everything gray! Some of these things most men I know don’t “hate”.
One for sure we do hate are jumpers! Those are hideous! But high heels and tight clothing? Really? Most men I know enjoy that! It’s all depending on who YOU asked and where. Try again!
So, let’s say that Sally Dude and I are going on a date. I show up at her front door only to be greeted by Sally wearing skintight leggings that reveal everything that she owns between her naval and her knees. I tell her I am not going out with her if that is what she plans to wear. Sally tells me that I cannot dictate what she wears. I agree with that! But I hope that she doesn’t think that I still have to go on the date with her just because she got all dressed up.
But, suppose I show up at her front door and I am wearing skintight pants that leave absolutely nothing to the imagination.
My assumption is that most of the time. It depends on if the guy is talking about his own woman. Or someone else’s woman. Not all men want their women showing off their bodies to other men. While some men would consider it bragging points.
men also hate big hats
Not all men.. I was born in Europe and used the wear all sorts of hats.
I was the first one in my country to wear a Courreges outfit and a lot of people made fun of me until the next year, they all were wearing his outfits, but I had already gone to another trend..At my age now..I am soon turning to 78 on the day of the summer solstice, I just wear my old clothes, and some of the accessories I designed in the late sixties and get a lot of compliments. So the trends are not important! Just wear what you want and what suits you best…according to your precious body!
I think a real woman isn’t going to be hanging out every where, boobs an kat showing, don’t leave nothing to the imagination, really tight clothing more make up that Tammy fay Baker. A real woman cares enough to be beautiful not trashy. Just saying
Absolutely correct! Get that thing off your head! 😀
Don’t you wear big hats.
Nobody cares what men think.
Most women hate them too
What do you say they hate women or they hate independent women who don’t approve of whether they like it or not?
We don’t always dress for men’s approval!!!!!
We know already know that. You dress to get approval from other women, because if you did anything to get a man’s approval, it would always be fourth or fifth on your list of priorities, if even that high. Enjoy your solo retirement with your 10 or 12 cats!
Women dress to compete with other women or just wear what they want.
women dress for other women’s opinions…not for men’s approval.
We do not need their approval. However, something has happened with Women enjoying looking feminine, stylish, and even sexy. Even a man dressed in a nice suit is appealing. Most do not care; and NO, not everything blends or matches well.
Uhm..not the point!
Why must some women always respond the same way? “we don’t do it for men.” Obviously, the article is not geared toward you then.
You need to dress for us, otherwise you’re going to stay barefoot with a mop. Maybe dirty dishes also. Just kidding don’t dress at all, stop all the bashing.
I never dress for men’s approval. If my dressing is not satisfactory for certain men, then he’s not the one for me anyhow.
Seriously, who cares!!! Old enough (and young enough) to wear what makes me feel good. Who needs (or wants) a man who judges you on your clothes. They can like (or dislike) what they want – freedom of thought, just keep it to yourself! My confidence does not need anyone’s approval.
I sure agree with you,This is exactly what I’ve been saying, be a real person, be free. If it makes you happy that’s all it matters we lost individuality.
AMEN to that, Aileen.
My wife goes for comfort too even when we are romantic. I mean what’s wrong with wanting to see something nice on your lady sometimes, this rarely ever happens. She says what does it matter your just gonna take it off anyway!
Aileen, I agree to a point. it is the lady’s prerogative to wear what she wants whenever she wants. And And, if her husband or boyfriend meets her somewhere & doesn’t like the outfit (And cannot change), best to smile and say nothing. But if they are home, and he things the outfit is terrible, he MUST politely strongly change, and maybe make a suggestion.
AMEN TO THAT…
Yes, a woman or man should dress as they wish. Yet if if a woman is looking for a man and man for a woman it only makes sense for them to dress appropriately. That may I tail what kind of man one is looking for and visa a versa. If one is looking for lasting relationship you will play the part.
Yes say it that’s what i’m talking about!
Mostly agree on the comment: except against high heels. High heels are sexy!
Then, men should feel free to. wear them
Yes it is
They ruin your feet.
I have been wearing high heels since I was 14 and still wear them. I am 75 and wear 4” heels.
They ruin more than your feet!
Over time. But in the office, church or at a picnic or festival sometimes nice. I would never run in them.
Yes, Leslie, high heels hurt more than the feet and are dangerous. I taught my daughters to not wear them and one does anyway.
That’s the only concern I’ve ever had about high-heels or stilettos. It’s more of a concern about a woman’s feet. I can’t imagine them being comfortable.
So true, Leslie. Most models have very bad bunions. High heels are not good for feet.
Not only that, you can trip and break your bones. I broke my wrist on slip from boot heel. What atorture I went thru. UGH. Could not play golf for two years.
Then you wear them!
They are painful to wear, not safe to wear, impractical.
Love love love my designer high heels!!! I’m 72 and still wear them!
I call high heels “cruel shoes “ !
I agree…i like sexy !!
I agree with that idea. They don’t have to be stilettoes, but 3 in. heels are perfect. Most woman don’t realize that When heels were developed in the 10th century for men riding horses. the foot stayed in the strop better.
I know who you are and know that you not only like high heels, you like luxurious lips as well.
I’m tall and have long legs I don’t need High heels to be Sexy!~
Haha! Yes Doug, very sexy till you fall off them, then they are hilarious. Have you tried to walk in them, maybe you have lol . Gwen xx
Then YOU wear them!
They forgot nose piercings. There is nothing at all attractive about nose piercings, especially the bulls ring type
Okay, guys: stop wearing sports attire, especially that flimsy satiny stuff. You aren’t a sports star (not that it looks good on them, either). Also, if your 10-year old kid is wearing it (or doing it) – don’t; e.g., your cap on backwards. Grow up and dress like man who’s got it going on – style doesn’t have to mean fancy.
This has to be the largest group of lies ever conjured up. for the sheer purpose of grabbing at if not overly exciting people to start a back and forth about nothing. This list has to be the most contradictory list ever put together. So men seem to like all these things in women they see in life. But when it comes to the one standing next to them day to day or on a date is a no go. What in the holy hell. That’s just not even right. It’s never about the clothes. It’s about the appeal of who’s wearing it and how it’s worn. Every physique different in its own way. But if a woman looks good in something then she just rocks it. Not to mention the fact that a lot of people say one thing in public. But are all about some other shit in reality. Just like for women there’s clothes that the average man body has on that they feel is a no go. But put it on a hard body they like and they are totally into it.
It’s easy to say that you will wear what you want, but when it come down to it, you are dressing to make an impression of some kind on someone. Maybe a group you hang out with or another woman; maybe your current career peers or the career you aspire to. Perception is reality! The preferences listed above are generally just good guidelines for appropriate dressing, whether you are doing it for a man or not. You are always going to make some kind if an impression by how you look. Personally, I usually dress to suit myself keeping in mind that hubby has to look at me, and I want to dress to keep both if us happy. The only one above that I disagree with is the high waisted pants. That statement is incorrect. The higher the waist, the longer your legs look, but if you are short waisted it’s a bad choice. Lower waisted pants accentuate your muffin top, if you have one, so a higher waist will help to disguise the buldge, as long as the fit is correct. On the other hand, a low slung belt also disguises a slight buldge, but it will make your legs look shorter.
I don’t wear most of this stuff to start with, but I will wear what I want, bottom line!
I never dress for anyone’s approval. I don’t like jumpers anyway because they are uncomfortable when you have to use the bathroom. High heels are nice but I no longer wear them. Flats are better for me. I wear what I like and usually don’t follow the trend.
I would think that every answer is an “it depends”. Like it depends on if it is a fat gal, a skinny gal, your girlfriend, or your wife of 30 years that seems like just a room mate. Depends on where they are and why they are dressed as they are etc.
So they basically hate everything. Good to know. It’s a good thing that most women wear whatever the hell we want as long as we are comfortable and we look good.
There’s a huge list of clothing and accessories that men shouldn’t wear but we’re not writing an article on that.
They hate thise who wear falsies for sure!
They hate those who wear fake chest and butt implants for sure!
Anything phony means u too r full of balcony!
We don’t care what Girls are wearing as long as they take their clothes OFF ! Ha
No I don’t like Tank Tops on Girls Uugghh ! Or flimsy Shorts
As someone who keeps my natural nails long, shaped and filed, and clean I’d say I really disagree on it being hard to keep long nails clean. It’s always been easy for me to keep them clean. It bugs me if they aren’t. I have broken off nails before, leaving it short and it’s not ANY easier to clean, almost the opposite. I look at most people’s short nails, and they’re usually dirty. (Especially guy’s nails!)
I think it depends on the man. Whenever you generalize you are talking about yourself and maybe a small sampling of opinions. Some women don’t care what men think. Some women dress for themselves (and other women). Women who dress to impress a man should be mindful that unless them man does the same thing to impress her, he is not worth it. Often women are dressed with class and the men look like bums.
men also hat great big hats
Agreed -almost any hat.
I love women wearing big hats. Look at the fashion queens in the movies of the thirties and the fourties.
I <3 my hats but they are not all great big, I should say. Inauguration day, our new 1st lady wore her's with grace and I <3'ed her stunning look.
That was a waste of 10 minutes! Not one thing on this list, let alone any list, is comprised of anything I HATE…. What a woman does or doesn’t ain’t non of my business. Nothing works for me😎
Most women dress for women not men. Women know if what you are wearing is the latest and how much it could have cost or that it is a statement. Men only see if it appeals to their visual sense. I don’t like men wearing tight pants or those little suits that look too small on them. I don’t like seeing a man with a suit and no socks. Just to name a few dislikes.
I could go on but why..,
Just WHAT is fashion, anyhow? It is the epitome of the dastardly wasteful “planned obsolescence” ploy—A device to manipulate women to ditch their clothes and buy new wardrobes!
Whenever I enter a thrift store, I am appalled at the wastefulness I see—racks and shelves overloaded with women’s shoes, hand bags and clothing, clothing, clothing!! Most of it will end up in the dumpster.
Meanwhile, in the third world, many good people have NO shoes, and wear their clothes until they fall off! In FACT, there are people in Africa who are SO poor—they have NO clothes at all! They are ashamed of that and hide naked in the jungle! Now isn’t that A REALLY SAD SITUATION??
I could never be attracted to these overindulgent greedy women; caught in the racket of constantly buying and ditching clothing. In my opinion, a woman can be mighty attractive wearing simple well fitting modest clothing on a constant basis. And just a few pair of comfortable simple shoes should be adequate. It also shows consideration to the less fortunate women in the world. Selfishness comes across as hideously ugly to me.
This timely missive compliments of Feral Tomm
Well here is another slant. When you purchase fashion or anything else you are keeping people employed. Starting with the cotton growers or any other fabric origin to the dyers, the weavers, the pattern makers, to the sales force for each stage and every other stage in between. Many of the workers would be starving in the streets.
As far as the thrift shops go, the products are purchased by people who could not afford to buy them new. Many shops in poor areas give the donated items away for free and the recipients are overjoyed to get them. I volunteer in a very poor area and observe first hand the benefits of thrift shops. The shops who sell the goods are almost all manned by volunteers and the much needed profits go into the community.
Try volunteering in a depressed area and you may develop a different viewpoint. Not all poverty exists in other countries.
Amen, you said it all.
Agree
Gloria is right. Good going, Feral.
Men and me don’t like to see YOGA tights on women exposing private parts. The thin, tight to the crotch, look like nylons which we covered up the butt crack and the genitalia. with a dress or a skirt. How beautiful were the sundresses with a waist which were comfortable and lovely. Be that different woman, graceful, who shows respect for those who walk behind her, instead of painted yoga tights showing butt cracks from the rear, and in the front, the pornographic outline of the genitals. Why were yoga tights not specifically mentioned in your survey?
I totally agree with Tomm!
Thank you for this. I agree 100%
You’re ignorant as hell!
I could NEVER agree with you MORE! Be so grateful for what you DO have, share what you can and don’t COMPLAIN about what you don’t have. That old story about being so unhappy about having no shoes, until I met a man who had no FEET…
Not that you should ever challenge WORSE, but there are many more people in this world worse off than you and me. Most of them are helpless children who don’t have a choice. Pray for them and do what YOU can do to help.
My mother used to sing this song to us. `Children we must love each other, `tis the Good Lord’s Golden Rule’.
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you! Simple logic! Treat others as you want them to treat you!
OK, done with my diatribe. Wish you all well and be blessed!
I hate it when a woman wears an outfit with the bra straps plainly showing! How would like to hang out with a guy that has his underwear sticking out plainly above his pants?
If, I need a man’s opinion, about what I’m wearing, I’ll give it to him. I said what I said!
I agree. I like a woman who is herself. Not a lot of paint on her face. I like a woman with a natural look.
You’re right, I get alot of my household decor at the thrift store and I work it over to look like I like it!! No waste. I buy clothes at a nice thrift store we have. Alot of them don’t even look like they’ve been worn!! There’s no use blowing a $100 bill on a pr of jeans, they’re not worth it a $29 will last as long and look just as good! If places like Goodwill would send all the clothes they don’t ever sell to places like Africa they could clothe alot of ppl!! I do like leather shoes and purses because they’ll last me way longer than plastic or that fake leather!! I get them at TJMaxx or Marshall’s so I don’t pay full prices.
I love anything feminine
Thank you Feral Tomm. Your my kinda guy.
You are SO right!
I wear baseball caps when working in my yard, hiking, or out on a boat.
I went out with two men that hated them. They didn’t say anything at first, but one day the jerk on the boat told me to ditch the hat. He would rather see my hair flowing I’m the wind (seriously, on a boat? No way).
The other one told me he hated the hat after we dated a couple of years. He said he likes the way other women wear a ponytail hanging our of the back and not all tucked up like mine.
Well, go date those other women!
I’m glad Chastity Belts became obsolete and wasteful!
Never seemed to wear out and fall off.
A lot more fun to play naked in the woods or jungle.
Always worn by overindulgent greedy women, in my book. hideously ugly to me too.
Stop hideous, ugly, selfishness- Share what you got women out there.
Someone should step up and send that stuff over there.
I can agree with you on the most part. If oyu stop and look at the whole picture, who are the woman going out and buying these clothes? maybe they can afford them, it is not for me to judge. Now look at it this way, if they were not doing this, these stores would not be in business and you and others that could not afford these clothes for yourself. In life we have to look at the whole prospective. I have been on both sides of the coin. I have bought name brand shoes for $900 and Armani dresses for my girlfriend, but when I was on the other side of the coin we went to these stores. Live and enjoy life the best you can.
Love your answer 100%!!!!
Waste is everywhere not just clothes. In case you have not noticed we have a lot of poor people over here and homelessness is growing. Open your eyes.
It’s not really what you wear, it’s how you wear it. Most of these women on here are so self centered they don’t act confident in themselves. The man wants a woman that acts like a woman. When I’m dating a man I would wear his favorite color. Many men love Red and Blue. A Red blouse and Blue Jeans can be very pretty.
So do you donate those clothes that are overflowing. Maybe a collection site so you can send those clothes
AMEN & AMEN. I agree totally with you.
High heels??? I don’t know who you ask, but all the guys I know love to see a gal in heels and comment that they don’t see enough anymore.
I am confused by the Wimple comment and some guy saying he would rather be single than date a woman wearing one. Pretty sure the nuns wearing wimples are not doing so to enhance their dating prospects or make themselves attractive to men in any manner! What a moron.
I dress for my husband. He also buys the shoes he likes to see me wear with certian outfits. He has good taste. He also wears cloths that I like to see him in. We both like the same colors and styles, so often we wear matching styles and colors. Our clothes speaks of the love and oneness we have together.
I don’t like huge clodhopper shoes, tall boots and tattoos. Whatever happened to femininity?
Tell men “Mind your own damn attire”
Or start buying me what ever !!
AAnd stop wearing those ignorant shorts that show everything you got!! Very misleading and not always in a positive way!!!
How about comments on what women don’t like to see men wearing?
My experiences are that too often men say they will wear what they like. As an adult woman I am happy to say the same thing.
I just feel that most women will reply that, they don’t really care if a man likes what they wear or not. It’s up to us to find a women that matches up with our style of dressing and keep it moving. No time to go back and fourth about the issue. Don’t have the time or energy.
For several reasons, people–men and women equally–in the United States do not look as now as they did several generations ago. The modern uniform (baseball cap, T-shirt, blue jeans) looks the same on almost everyone, and I doubt that many would say they hate it, but it is nothing to write home about. Women dress as they please, and the result is not impressive to most men, so women become defensive and declare that they no longer dress to please men. Apparently men no longer dress to please women either. The result is rather unfortunate on both sides, but we have learned to tolerate living in an ugly world these days, so why should clothing be beautiful or even moderately attractive?
I say wear what makes you happy.
Good comments, Feral Tomm.
Women hate when men wear the same clothes day in and day out without washing them.
how about power boots, or vagina pants
Who did you ask about high heels?
Every man I know loves them. Big clumpy platforms, No😖, but graceful high heels are pretty, sexy and most women agree.
First of all, I don’t dress for men. So who gives a rip. Second, I don’t know a man under 70 that doesn’t enjoy a cold shoulder top or heels, especially if you can lift a hay bale while wearing both!
The right woman looks great in anything. Even a burlap sack. I do agree with all the 14 things. Long nails are cringe. Makes women look incompetent. High heels give off bad vibes to me too. Big eyeglasses and sunglasses look stupid on men and women.
What men/man wrote this or who did they ask. A group of control freaks or insecure men/man. I don’t know any females that dress the way they do to please any man. They dress according to what makes them feel/look good. What is comfortable to them. People need to stop trying to belittle females cause honestly 95% of us could care less what you think. If you want your opinion to count I suggest you go vote.
I agree who cares you should dress for what makes. you feel good.
Isn’t it another aspect of making your choice of mates? If this is to show that not everybody likes everything then ok. But to change just so someone will like you? That won’t last long because it isn’t who you are and you can’t sustain it. Don’t like big hats, don’t ask out someone who loves them. There is no magic answer to what men or women like. Find the one that likes you the way you are, both men and women, otherwise your relationship is doomed.
I have been married almost 50 years. My husband hated women wearing Jeans. I have not worn them in 49 years due to this. Does not bother me. We will be married 50 years in August
I’m 76 yrs. old. And I never pay attention to what a woman wears, and never have. But, let a pretty girl walk by me, wearing a string bikini and I’ll enjoy every step she takes. Show me a man who says he wouldn’t , and I’ll show you a gay man or a liar or dead. Yes, I’m grinning.
I always dressed to please my husband and myself and vice versa. I always wanted him to be proud of me and again thats how he felt too. Looking like a slob wasn’t in either of us. Maybe that’s why we loved each other so completely.
If a mas has style himself, other than tee-shirts; then he will want a lady who has fashion sense and knows how to put herself together.
The people who write this stuff are retarded and don’t proofread. Or just retarded
Men hate all clothes even nightgowns they just want them all off especially at night
How did skorts not make this list? I don’t know any man who likes them.
I love to dress nice and accessorize, It makes me happy. Ready for fun and dancing.
Where’s the rest of the article?
I just read Most Men hate it when Women wear these 14 Things.
I found this very humorous.
I would like to know the 14 things that they like to see women wear.
Just curious.
A lady should be a lady and the lady knows how to dress properly and with decency. I am apalled that on television the neck lines are now so low that no one needs to suggest whether or not there is a bra inside. And, with the skirts so short ladies on morning shows and others should not cross their legs. I don’t mind seeing thighs if the lady is wearing a swimsuit and getting into the pool. But, on television, no! My husband and my son watch television news, etc. I do not want them gazing at other women’s too revealing bodies.
Hmm, I don’t agree with several article references. I wear high heels with a dress to church every Sunday. I have beautiful legs and never once received, or felt any indication, whatsoever, a very appropriate look was unappreciated. And, no, my ankles do not wabble or bend sideways! There is a graceful, fluent way to walk like a lady. Oh, also the picture shown in the article shown a scooped necked blouse, not a bare shoulder blouse or sweater. A big difference. I believe a tasteful small area of a bare shoulder sweater is most appropriate and… a little sexy. And high-waisted trousers on a tall slim woman with a tee shirt or long sleeve semi-fitted sweater with appropriate heels, gold hooped earring, looks stunning.
I’m equally surprised men did not mention flats as a turnoff. Fringed bottom clothing, huge purses that look like carry-on luggage and huge overly poufy sleeves.
Seriously, if one feels good, looks good with whatever one has on, what difference does it make!
Hmm, I don’t agree with several article references. I wear high heels with a dress to church every Sunday. I have beautiful legs and never once received, or felt any indication, whatsoever, a very appropriate look was unappreciated. And, no, my ankles do not wabble or bend sideways! There is a graceful, fluent way to walk like a lady. Oh, also the picture shown in the article shown a scooped necked blouse, not a bare shoulder blouse or sweater. A big difference. I believe a tasteful small area of a bare shoulder sweater is most appropriate and… a little sexy. And high-waisted trousers on a tall slim woman with a tee shirt or long sleeve semi-fitted sweater with appropriate heels, gold hooped earring, looks stunning.
I’m equally surprised men did not mention flats as a turnoff. Fringed bottom clothing, huge purses that look like carry-on luggage and huge overly poufy sleeves. Most men haven’t a clue about fashion, nor do they care!
Seriously, if one feels good, looks good with whatever one has on, what difference does it make!
I believe Most most would disagree with over 50% of what you said. Where did you gets this from an old folks home survey?
I try and dress comfortable but pleasant on the eyes. As far as the thrift store, usually it clothes that don’t fit or aren’t the owners’. People donate to help others and part with oldies that we’ve outgrown in some way or another.
No woman looks good wearing a baseball cap — and not many men either. They are necessary when playing baseball, but that’s it.
Baseball caps!
And a woman who grew up burning bras & working in the world CARE what a man’s opinion is………..????
My ex had the most GOD AWFUL taste! Yet he had the balls to criticize my clothing choices & my naturally curly hair…….
My second husband was a clothed horse & wore things well. I told me every day how beautiful I was…..
WHO would you choose?????
Okay..gonna probably piss off everyone else but I LOVE MY CLOTHES..LOVE MY BOOTS..LOVE MY LINGERIE..LOVE MY SHOES..LOVE IT ALL and will NEVER stop buying what makes me feel pretty and feminine! Don’t give a damn about what other people wear or care about what’s in fashion. I did without for all my life and now I don’t have to…
Men don’t like for women to wear the type of head covers that Nun’s wear. Could it be because they know when you’re with a Nun you don’t get Nun?
All men are not alike..all women are not alike. How abt we accept people as they are and quit judging people on something as petty as what they are wearing? How abt accepting someone who has different opinions than yours? About time we all grow and just get along.
As a man, the only one of these I agree with is the excessively long finger nails, otherwise I say wear whatever you want and feel comfortable in.
I personally can go from shorts or jeans to white tie ensemble and everything in between (it depends on the occasion, or what I’m feeling that day).
I also wear a lot of costumes (cosplay & I’m 66), but if I feel like wearing a costume to go shopping, then that’s just how it’s going to be.
So, whatever makes the individual happy is cool, wear it and don’t worry about what others think, that’s their problem.
I do not believe that the male respondents were telling the truth. Perhaps they were being interviewed by a female interviewer and were faking being gentlemen because they fancied her.
I love dressing up…in today s casual world, it’s as much for me as my man…
IDGAF what a man likes or dislikes about my clothes. I’m not dressing for them… and most of THEM dress like they’re going to WalMart.
Reminds me of when a lady in line with me was talking about all she had to do. She remarked she had to go and get a manicure and said, “The things we do for you men!” I said, “Well you really do that for yourself and maybe other women because I can tell you that not once have I ever heard one of the guys say, Wow look at the nails on her!
Show a little skin. If you got it flaunt it.
The comments really show who read the title and who actually read the article 😂 opps your ignorance is showing🤭
What a man really enjoys is the special reveal. Not for everybody to see, like a cute LITTLE tattoo hidden from everybody but me. But the downside is somebody had to put the tattoo there, hopefully by another woman. Also a proud woman doesn’t want to reveal much. A proud woman is the most sexy.
The large full arm or leg tattoo is actually damaging to image. Image is important, it tells a lot.
Was this article supposed to deter me from wearing what I want because men don’t like it? Yeah, okay! lol
Some of us don’t know what some oft those are. Like rompers and cold shoulder sweaters
I love how repeatedly it mentions baggy, I’ll fitting pants and shorts. Yet, guys insist on wearing saggy oversize pants exposing their underwear. Do you think there are any real women that want to see their nasty boxers? Before you criticize us, take a look in the mirror at what you are wearing!!!! I dress for me. I don’t need a man’s approval since most couldn’t put an outfit together to save their lives!!!!
Who the heck wears a wimple besides a nun or Muslim woman, both of which wear as part of their religion/ideology. Unless there’s a new wimple in town that I haven’t seen?
These men can suck it. I don’t even wear high heels, but knowing that men hate, it makes me wanna wear them
heels make women wiggle, no panties make men giggle;
skinny jeans make men stare, bare shoulders make men care;
dresses make men wish, minis make men miss their dish with their forks;
comfortable women earn respect everywhere;
NOSE JEWERLY
I don’t have a problem with what a woman wears, only when they wear what they think men find sexy by bearing parts of their anatomy that turn us off like floppy breasts and fat-spilling midriff
WoW……women get a bone over the smallest thing………. Gloria Steinman changed AmeriKKKKKA for the worse. Gone is the day a gal wanted to dress for her man. NOT TODAY—-HOW DARE you question my 55 tats all of unicorns and butterflies. And I like my hair half purple and half green – Looks like Tha JOKER has arrived……… The responses are funny stuff. I’ll leave you, Ladies, to your ruling the henhouse. Have fun out there…………I’m to Naples!!!
Not sure where you got your men from but me and all the guys I know love high heels, sexy show-off clothes nice jewelry and big glasses.
How in the hell are we STILL even thinking about what men want or don’t want. As if we’re all out here just tryin to figure out how to get/catch/seduce a man. 1st not all women want to seduce a ‘man’. 2nd notice how all language used regarding finding a partner involves a sense of their participation happening only after being MADE to see you. Don’t ever chase ANYONE. If they want to be with you the things you wear will be a non issue. A farmer doesn’t want a high maintenance fashionista & a high end business man isn’t gonna be ok with a low maintainence “take me as I am” ( read confident in herself) woman. Your eventual partner will see you.
This seems like a very sexist concept. I don’t care what a woman wears. I care about who she is.
Honestly, the truth is wear what compliments your body frame 🤗. I’m married and I enjoy my husband finding me attractive, so yess I do wear things I like and things he likes. Unfortunately I’ve learned that there’s a time and place for every style of outfit. I am very confident and comfortable in who I am so I wear what I like even if it’s not what others think is in style. But I will never wear anything to disrespect myself or my husband. Oh and a heal is very much apart of my wardrobe and I wear them well❣️☺️🤗
What is worse are tattoos. Sorry, I refuse to date any woman that is tatted up. I think it is beyond tacky. I don’t even like men all tatted up but for a woman it is not lady like nor are foul mouths. It makes them look cheap. I am so disgusted how people look these days. Some homeless look better even. That’s pathetic!
Comfortable clothes is one thing but when I see women looking like they just woke up from bed, wearing pajamas out, they wear no makeup, clothes not pressed, and hair a total mess it isn’t acceptable and that includes men too looking a fright. Have a little dignity, class, and self respect. For crying out loud even drag queens look better than many women.
Liberation doesn’t mean looking like an utter slob in front of everyone. Years ago both men and women cared about how they looked when they went out even to a restaurant or even a store. Now people think it is OK to not shower, wear the grungiest clothes, men wearing man buns and socks with crocs or sandles including the dirtiest of feet when wearing sandles, women don’t wear bras or panty hose, people pass by smelling of BO or pot, dying their hair at any age with absurd colors like blue, purple, or pink, piercings out of control and the list goes on and on. Then they wonder why people don’t like them or can’t getxanywhere in life. How about looking in the mirror!
People years ago never looked like what they do now. Shame on our country for not having higher standards or at least having dignity with self respect for yourself and others.
There are human standards in society that we should live by not just letting ourselves go to look as repulsive as possible. I see women setting the poor example for their kids as well.
When a man dresses and a woman does not approve she comments he changes.
Anger anger anger…. calm down ladies!
This site is just looking for eyes and clicks
Just be a sincere, hopefully funny, shower daily, with clean clothes with a kind heart, is respectful of others or at least polite, nice teeth, and loves kids, women who don’t love kids are a complete turnoff. Watch their weight
No actual woman cares what a man or boy, rather, thinks about what clothing we wear. I am comfortable in not tight, and more baggy clothing. I look good in button up shirts and ties and I love wearing wingtip Oxfords. I am comfortable with it. Who cares what a guy thinks. Maybe they are jealous because some women wear men’s clothes better than men. 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
Always got to show your curves need to cover up more
SO? Who gives a #$%@)(*^&% what they like or dislike?
Great..now I know what to wear go annoy them more
This article is stupid. One dummies opinion does not reflect what half of the population might or might not think. Anyone who thinks this writer carries any merit with the male population of Earth is a dummy.
I’m not a man, but I really hate jeans full of holes. When is that so-called fashion going to go away?
I earn my own money to shop and wear what I want! Just because I’m 62 doesn’t mean that I have to dress like a frump! While you don’t have to like it, your opinion doesn’t matter! I am free to do as I want!
I hate nylons and granny panties! I love it when a woman wears a tank top and panties, be it a bikini, a string bikini or a thong!
Where did you get this nonsense from? And who are most men? I have never met a man that did not love to see a woman in high heels. Maybe some men don’t like to see their wives or lovers wearing revealing outfits in public, I believe those men are in the minority not the majority. Now personally I don’t like to see women in a professional or social setting wearing sloppy clothes and dirty tennis shoes, but that is just me, not most men.
Best wear is what your Mom approve.
I’ve been with many women and am much older than those answering here so have seen lost of changes in women’s clothes. What has remained consistent and true of most women for decades is they will wear cut off jeans and tops that are form fitting and cut offs that make a guy cry. Many will wear dress clothes that are form fitting and show off their beautiful figures. I’ve seen women who look amazing in a pair of jeans and others who have dress clothes that they make look jaw dropping. I feel that certain fads in clothing may not work for any women. The pants they now sell (2024) are cut high and look bad. I see women with jeans that have the tears in the legs and other places and they look sooo good on these women.
Women need to dress according to what makes them look good and feels good on them. Most have good taste and know how to dress. I can tell you that men will always look at a woman dressed in form fitting clothes as we all love to admire female body. We all can’t always be dressed to kill or look great and men are in this too. One thing need to say. If the clothes you have look and fit great and are not designer clothes do you care? Men don’t care about a designer unless they have some a special item that is only available by that designer and they want.
Gee I thought the opposite was true, about high heels, fitted and revealing clothes. Don’t males have the mindset about “look what I got” to show off to their friends. The physical is the first attraction, the personality comes second which us why many quality women don’t get asked out.
I am a mature women in my 60’s, dress, classic/professional on a daily basis. I believe leaving this up to a men’s imagination to what I have. I think this is sexy.
jodhpurs
Hi, as a man I don’t know where u came up with these 14 clothes men hate! I love high heels! I also love tight pants on a beautiful shapely lady! What I hate the most is “flip flops”! They are ugly, hard to walk in and if a women doesn’t have great toes they look pathetic,,,I agree largely loose shorts are not appealing or tightly two piece outfits on a larger women are not flattering! I also agree that most men outfits are bad, so what would they know,,,My outfits always match and I wear a matching color watch with each! Its the larger sized women who should not wear tight outfits ever! Most women wear whats confortable which is fine!!
Believe it or not, good men like women who dress modestly!
I’ve heard about non-Muslim men complementing Muslim women wearing hijab and long-loose clothing.
Regarding men thinking that long nails are unhygienic and harbor germs: that is exactly how I feel about the beards that so many are wearing now. There is no bigger turnoff than sitting across from a man at a restaurant and seeing bits of food lodged in his beard! Yuk. I like men clean shaven.
I hate the haircuts with fades on the sides. Men look better with a little hair on the sides, especially as they age. Tom Selleck always wore his hair just long enough to curl. Now he wears it unflattering lay short for his full aging face.
If men hate baggy basketball shorts on women, so do I not like them on men. They flatter no one!
As a man, I’ll comment, not on the article, but on the comments from those who so vehemently oppose it.
To me, it just said FYI, here’s what men like. Do with it as you please. I for one would welcome knowing what women like.
Taking this article as being told that you have to do or not do something is more of a comment on your own issues.
Tight jeans, low cut shirts and high heels. SEXY
I hate to see women in such ill fitting tights that the crotch seam is dividing their vagina. Don’t they look in the mirror or is that the way they actually want to dress for the streets?? Disgusting!!
I could care less what men like/ don’t like
I don’t dress or live my life to please men
I live my life to please myself!
To much comfortable plain stuff to bed and the same black bra.
Once in a while it would be nice to see something other than big bloomers.
Contrary to this. Most mature men have learned to appreciate a woman for the way she carries herself, rather than how she’s dressed. If she’s wearing a low-cut blouse with a mini-skirt, sure I’d take a look. But to most mature men, that would be a “red-flag” ! If a woman is well-dressed, and it could be sweats, a real man can recognize her true beauty. You really don’t have to work that hard to impress a real man. We recognize “true beauty”. It comes natural to us, and it shows in you.
Let women wear what they want…if you don’t like what they wear, ignore them.
Find a woman that you feel comfortable with. People are not perfect and all women have some fault.
Date a woman you LIKE. If she LIKES you also, then you have a base to build on; my woman has most of the same likes and dislikes as do I. We enjoy each others’ time together and doing the same things. After my first wife (38 years) died, I dated more than forty differenent women until I found my current wife. We dated for over five years before I knew she was “the one” and I proposed to her in a Home Improvement Store, since that’s where we BOTH enjoyed going.
To be blunt, there isn’t much that women wear that bothers me.
It’s how some wear certain items that may make me want to gag though.
But, I bet plenty of things guys can wear wrong, will draw the same reflex from women.
The key to fashion is…wait for it…wear what you like that fits what you’re wearing it for. That’s that, as far as I’m concerned. But that’s just an opinion of a man who respects and supports women.
Where are they surveying these guys?? If a guy has a problem with his a woman being too tall in high heels, get over it. She doesn’t need high heels to look down at you…. you schmuck!
And high heels increases the sculptured shape of a woman’s calves, by making her calf muscle prominent… a very attractive and appealing look.
I believe most women are more conscious how nice they look when in public than most guys. Guys baggy low riser shorts and hoodies do not make a guy look like a prize catch for any woman with taste. Add a knit dock worker’s cap and he might as well be a parolee… not a good look.
You women have the advantage being attractive to men, which means guys better develop more sophisticated taste about how their attire comes across to the woman of their dreams.
Your not Ryan Reynolds or Brad Pitt guys, so don’t think that yo’re so cool that what you wear doesn’t really matter… or knit pick what the opposite sex might be wearing.
Clothing is one of the first things, if not the first thing that many women notice about a guy before he even opens his mouth. A guy’s wardrobe is his calling card, so design it carefully.
Most men don’t know what jumpers, rompers or wimpies are, me being one of them.
The day I dress for a mans’ liking/approval is when they start acting like men and not little boys. Especially when there’s a crisis to be taken care of. Or kids left behind cuz they couldn’t take care of them or the baby mama!
Hell no! First they gotta be men and then we shall see.
Love the spike heels
Waste not, want not is my model. American waste too much on everything. They want it so they think they need it. Plus, Americans want to empress everyone into thinking they are rich. Those are the people who really have nothing but bills and go under if they were out of work for just one month . Sad
With all the adds, I never found the entire article to read the list.
Many overgeneralizations. High heels are a turn on for many-justlook at models. Some hats witlarge brims are also very attractive.,etc., etc.
I hate when good looking women wear nose rings or have studs put in there nose seen plenty of women who would look even better without the nose jewelry just don’t get the reasoning for it!
Agree,and men do dress to suit women at least sometimes.
Whoever wrote this article, must be warped. Sounds like he thinks, only his opinion matters. I am 54 , and I’ve seen many different type fashions come and go. The only thing I’ve seen women wear, that I didn’t like, is women who wear clothes that make them look like a little boy, like hip hugger jeans and a big baggy tshirt, and then there’s basketball shorts, or when they dress like a thug, wearing a complete outfit, that 3 people could get into at same time. But this is just my opinion, women should dress and wear what they choose, and what makes them comfortable. And one more thing, I wish more women would wear there hair long. Long hair, long nails and high heels, is sexy on women with just about any outfit. But it seems like today’s women are becoming lazy and don’t want to have to take the time to care for things like this. But again just my opinion. A lady should look like a lady, and a man should look like a man.
I can’t stand a woman who always wears suits, especially dark black suits, like Kamala Harris for example. I think it is so unfeminine and it really turns me off!!
FAKE HAIR
My husband loves me for who i am not what i wear
More men should be like that.
I really don’t care what a woman wears. She can be herself as long as she’s comfortable. 👍 Jimbo Mexican American, former USN Radioman PO3 86-96.
Ladies, I agree that baggy shorts & baggy pants are not attractive, but (Like men) there are many times that ladies just want to be comfortable, which is just fine. Additionally, any man who doesn’t like ladies in high heels (Because she might be too tall) has definite feelings of inferiority. I for one know that ladies wearing heels is not always easy, and i appreciate the effort they make. And finally, LONG FINGERNAILS (Especially painted) are damn sexy! Granted, if on a tight budget, it might be too much to spend every 2 weeks. But if not, they are a great investment, because they always look nice on a lady.
The only part of a man’s suit I like are the sleeves–whether women are wearing the jacket or just the blouse–, I like looking a women who have pushed up their sleeves to just below their elbows because I want to see some skin on their arms. 🙂
As for other stuff that women wear, that’s up to them to be decide upon. As other commenters have noted, they’re NOT dressing for our approval but for other women or for themselves.
You cared enough to read the article. smh
Sound like they would rather you to walk around in a moo moo! Who cares I’m gonna put on what ever i like!
As a woman, I agree with these men.
I think what men are saying is, that they would rather hang out with a Golden Retriever, than a high-maintenance Poddle.
I figure that it depends on the age of the man being asked. My husband has told me that he dosn’t care. Although I don’t wear too revealing or flash or most of that other stuff. A lot of men I know think high heels are sexy, UNLESS they make the woman that they’re with taller than him. And my husband loves my long nails.
I love all beautiful women
Fashion is what makes that person, happy, comfortable or what’s favored in their eye. What anyone else thinks is on them.
This is a great example of our deranged society: as said: many or most women wear WHATEVER THEY FEEL LIKE! At the mall you may see a woman wearing a mumu or a tutu, we men are STILL WEARING OUR GRANDFATHERS UNIFORMS: DARK PANTS, LITE SHIRT etc your great grandpa wouldnt be noticed as odd! Omg! That shirt buttons the WRONG WAY people would think Im gay“~~
True. Wear what you want. However, IMHO, that the bottom boob exposure is like a butt crack exposure. But to each their own.
Also, I miss dressing up. I saw some elementary school students wearing suit and ties again. Bring it back.
I dont like some things men wear! But what is wirse how git are the men my spouse is the worst dressed and clean man ever and i dont know how i missed thus as it fepends on their weight and body type too, just like women!!!!
Tight or poorly fitti g clothes on someone who is overweight especially men with big stomachs and no butt!!!
I love casual clothing , dressing up, etc. its all how it fits ive seen many women who are where too tight clothing when they should not tall or short!!!
Dear Feral Tomm,
You bring tears to my eyes. I am overjoyed to hear of people like you. It sounds like you must know the Lord Jesus Christ.!? Am I right about that. ? Not to bring religion up.
I always dressed the way it suited me and was considered a “beautiful woman”. I had many male admirers through the years because I had an engaging personality. Nobody should tell a woman how to dress. I thought we all knew better.
Wow, whoever said who cares is right.
We live in the age where black is white up is down right is wrong Every thing is perverted the food the water the air men women This age needs a house cleaning from the closet to the white house go back to black is black white is white a man is a man a woman is a woman air is pure water is clean food is not modified This age is called satans eden satan can only pervert creation he cant create
As a dude, I both agree and disagree with the overly revealing clothing one. Here’s why:
The type of outfits, modest, or immodest, says two different things about the woman.
Women in overly revealing clothing will certainly land a man’s eyes on her, like every man in the room! But it also communicates to men she’s very free with herself and is just looking for some fun for a night, or a week even. Men who are also looking for the same and nothing long term will approve the most and seek her out.
Women in more modest clothing communicates she’s long term relationship material, and NOT free with herself. Men will still admire her, but most of the men interested in the long term will be the only ones who’ll approach her, if any at all, depending on the situation they’re meeting under. Also, if the woman is in a relationship with a man, her man usually doesn’t want her wearing overly revealing outfits because it makes him feel like she’s still “advertising” herself to every other man and may not be faithful or fully committed to their relationship.
As a confident and secure positive attitude 💯 Eagles Dianna 💙 herself to the point where she’s never been thought to seek human appreciation or approval to justify herself with her desire clothing choices she wears
Anyone who writes a “men love/hate it when women …” article is (1) an idiot and (2) doubly sexist.
First and foremost, people of both/all genders should dress in what pleases them — what expresses who they are and what make them comfortable — and/or what they can afford.
Secondly, if you are capable of saying “Men love this” or “Women love that”, you are insulting everyone and you were apparently born in the 1920s and accidentally dropped here.
I was born in the 1950s and I was able to grow beyond my parents’ prejudices — the author of this piece should as well.
I hate fat arses
How about enormous clodhopper shoes and boots? Whatever happened to feminine footwear?
I would like to have made my comments, I did not find the 14 items in the article. If a woman have a man in her life she should as well he consider between the two what and how she dresses. I have more, I think it is respect on each others part.
A lady’s personality is what makes her attractive; clothes can be fun and interesting, but that’s the equivalent of a picture frame. What is in the picture is what draws my attention.
usually what men hate, women hate wearing! Having said that, women sometimes dress for other women’s approval..God knows why but just look at some of the initials on so many clothing items and tell me whether any man knows WHAT THEY STAND FOR AND WHO THE HECK CARES, that’s dressing for women not men, just sayin
I wear simple white embroidered shirts with white pants or long skirts and a white shawl. That’s it—easy to keep clean. Lovely. Chaste.
I don’t mind when they wear something, revealing, But it might convey something, ,they don’t want to convey. And to wear something that’s too tight, is believed to be unhealthy,
Fashion via Madison Ave is a trap to make people part with their money. Middle class values of new and more pave the road to ruin. If you want to feel good about yourself, try watching your bank account and investments grow. Consumption is not the way to seek self-worth.
Too tight pants= big juicy camel toe
Who cares ??
Sorry, Love tight jeans and tops! Do hate silly large glasses. High heals are sexy. LOVE long hair! Hate short hair.
On the right body all of them are OK… On the right body…
Clothes are suppose to highlight your good points and hide your bad ones…
1 in 1,000 can wear g-strings… 1 in 1,000 should wear baggy…
Wearing something that doesn’t work because it’s trendy shows a lack of insight…
The head coverings show oppression… American men have a problem with oppression…
someone is presumptuous. no one can speak for all men. the problem with gernralizations is that they are generally wrong.
you are presumptuous . you can not speak for all men. generalizations, are generally wrong.
I dont get how women may wear a plunging neck line on a dress or big slit in a formal gown and when a guy takes notice ( not stare) she gets offended ( or pretends to be). I mean you are wearing it to get a reaction or you wouldn’t have chosen it. And God forbid you comment on it like that dress truly enhances your curves – your dubbed a pig.
Who cares what they think of our style? You think men don’t have clothes that we don’t like? We wear what is right for us and I’m a big believer you wear what makes you feel good. And if they don’t like what I wear they can move on. Just saying.
Women and men should simply dress for
1) Comfort; 2) Occasion; 3) Atmosphere (including weather).
I never gave a \flying fig what men liked or didn’t like. I spoke my mind and dressed as I chose and neverl lacked for male attention. Just be yourself.
Women, please stop wearing those tops with the shoulders cut out. Ugh really. And not all women should wear black stretchy pants. You know I’m right !!
Well who ever invented yoga pants us men thank you!
I am amazed women like wearing those back when I was a teen girls would of been sent home for wearing those to class.
Taste is meaningless, it is neither a fact or an art .
I wear what I think looks nice on me. If he has a problem with that, don’t ask me out again.
I hear people say dress up and wear makeup and have nails, hair done and pedicure. All my friends who have been married a long time wear very little makeup, dress nice but do not spend a lot of money on clothes or elaborate things. They never did even when single guess they are naturally beautiful. Minimum time married 20 years.
I’m sorry, but I disagree with wearing your pants on your hips. I like to have my belly covered, and also, if I wear them on my hips, I run the risk of my pants falling down. No thanks!
Wow , angry and pissed . Why do a lot of these women get so upset and go on the offensive . What’s wrong with beautiful clothing , clothes that fit and make you look really nice , displaying you and your confidence . Being comfortable is key but do you really need to dress down , look sloppy , shapeless and drab to be a feminist . I don’t think so .
I totally agree almost every one of those items was true and what men like or what I like.
I am very modest and I like appropriate clothing so I’m not embarrassed to be with him. I like a well ironed shirt and they eyes are fine. Just don’t look sloppy and dirty.
I agrees with everything but the high heels. I see the stiletto as the ultimate in sexy. 100 to 120 mm heels, let me just say the ultimate in sexy. My opinion, ladies keep wearing those heels!!!!!!
Rompers? i think some one piece garments done tastefully are quite becoming and don’t look like a child is wearing it.
Why in the world would I care what men think about almost anything? If I like something, that’s all that matters!
Men don’t like women to wear to much makeup
They say they like the natural look’ also they don’t want there women to wear to short of a dress or skirt that when you want to pick up something you will give a show’
I do dress to attract a better class of women. A woman that dresses well is a person that cares about being attractive and is the woman I want…I avoid women with tats, crazy hair, nose rings and extreme behavior. Keep on pointing out your differences.
I’d say if you are attracted to the opposite sex, you try to impress them with what you wear…Most women dress for themselves and other women but mostly to attract the opposite sex! Just human nature!