The fact that they need you
One of the most common and damaging lies men tell is that they are perfectly capable of doing things by themselves, all the time, no matter what. “This is the most ludicrous lie of them all because we all need somebody – we’re social creatures that crave connection above almost everything else,” says former journalist and book author Tor Constantino.
Forget about all those hero movies you’ve seen on TV and come back down to Earth where life, good times and troubles are meant to be shared with someone. It’s ok to admit that at certain moments of your life, you need another person to help you, physically or emotionally. There’s nothing more beautiful in a relationship than to know you can rely on your partner.
