Their anger
“[Men] are afraid that they don’t have a ‘right’ to be angry about certain things,” explains Stanizai. Most men don’t want to be judged or criticized for feeling angry and decide it’s their own problem to solve.
Unfortunately, anger does not go away completely, no matter how much you try to “bury” it. In most cases, it will find a way to resurface, when you, or others, least expect it. Men have to know that a loving spouse can help them dissipate their anger. No in is saying they should completely rely on someone else to do their job for them. But seeing things from a different perspective might come in handy.
Besides, no person wants to be blindsided by their partner and have to deal with someone angry, for no apparent reason. Being angry is nota sign of vulnerability, it’s a human emotion and med should stop lying about it.
