6. Take the lead

We’ve previously talked about how males like to chase, but sometimes one of the things men want from you is to take the lead and surprise them. It’s always nice to mix things up, so if he’s always the one to initiate your bedroom activity, why not try to start it?

Women aren’t the only ones who fear rejection, even if we’re talking about long-term relationships. Men love confident women who know what they want and aren’t scared to go for it (but the same goes for us too, right?), so it will be s*xy as h**l to see you take the lead and surprise him with something only you know how to do.