2. Room to chase
One of the things men want from you is to allow them to chase you. You’ve probably heard many times that males are hunters and they like to pursue women, and that’s true. On the other hand, it’s also true that they enjoy it when women take the lead, but we’ll talk about it later.
Now let’s go back to the chasing part. If you’re constantly the one who texts, calls, asks for a kiss or hug, or plans dates, you don’t give him enough space to feel the urge to reciprocate and pursue you. We’re not talking about playing games and writing down who initiated what. It’s about your significant other knowing that he’s consciously choosing you and that he’s not convinced or pushed into anything.
Change your attitude and allow things between you to flow freely. For instance, if you’re the one who always kisses your man goodnight or good morning, try to stop for a day and allow your partner to come to you.
He will definitely do it because you won’t be there to pursue him, and he’ll miss you. If he’s into you, he’ll do anything in his power to get you, but give him space to chase you now and then.
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Responses to questons. When that dries up so does trust and without trust there ain’t a lot left
This is such a great article. I like the points made. I love to initiate sex with my partner.
To many ads I can NEVER finish an article
Just looking for ways to make my relationship better by seeing what my man would like
What I look for is Respect, Honesty, Loyalty unless open relationship is establisted up front, Sense of Humor, Good Comunication. Someone who will attempt to join me and do what I like to do.
I love the articles
“we” definitely do NOT need another “control freak”. The gov’t. issued one (very expensive) is enough for 4 men to have to deal with….. let alone by ourselves
Not enough blatant honesty. How about incredibly great lovemaking, and I mean in every way? It’s two ways there, but most women I’ve been with prefer receiving, and that gets old sometimes.
Women I’ve been with seem to just receive lovemaking than to give equally. Not enough blatant honesty in this article.
What do you want us to do to show you our love?
we are grown ups tell it like it is
Lot’s of men don’t believe in making love anymore no foreplay what so ever I’ve always felt making love should be given by both not just the men some men make all that noise thinking they’re doing something 3 minute action and that’s all you get lol it feels good to invent thing’s to spice love making stronger making each other feel good showing the love behind the feeling’s for both
I have a man known him forever we knew each other 30 yrs ago I was married then now divorced, don’t never met again until 6 years ago we are like best friends he lays next to me every night he won’t touch me we never kissed , never made love, my body is screaming for him to be more emotional and loving he older I. 56 he 70 perfect health he does a lot for me he there ,what can I do to get him to be more loving to me