10 Things Women Want in Bed but Won’t Tell You

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9. Special talk

As we’ve already discussed, women take a little longer to get in the mood, so why not give them some help? Another one of these important things women want in bed is for you to talk to them in a special way.

It will make them feel good and ready for action, and maybe it will encourage them to talk like that too. If you’ve never done it, you should know that it is very liberating, and it can get very blurry but wonderful.

10. Take control

We’re almost done with these things women want in bed (if you’d love part two of this article, or if you want to read what men would want in bed, leave a comment below and we’ll take care of it), but we still have something to tell you: take control.

Of course, it’s fun and exciting when women take control and decide what those romantic moments will look like, but if you want to surprise her like only you know how, be the boss. You’ll both enjoy it, and the afterglow will be priceless!

If you want to spice up your love life, here’s a fantastic game to put you both in the mood. Do you know any other things women want in bed? Leave them in the comments!

If you enjoyed reading about the things women want in bed, we have many other interesting articles for you to check out next! Until next time, here’s a fantastic post for you: 10 Things Your Partner Should Hear Every Day

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90 responses

  1. Very interesting article and especially important for young men to read to have a life-long pleasure.

  2. Great artical, now what things are men most likely to want or need. I can only speak for myself when it comes to this. Bur I’d like to learn what “most” men would like. May learn to ask for a few new or frisky moves to add to my routine.

  3. There are a few other things that women love that will excite them in bed that you left out

    11) Invite another woman, especially if she’s more attractive than your mate to join and have fun
    12) Make it bigger; size matters to a woman, the bigger the member, the better she will feel, especially if she’s a short, small, skinny woman.
    13) Go down; women love it when men go to the woman’s dungeon to give her what she wants and needs, it’s a turn off to a woman if a man refuses, or if she doesn’t have a pleasant smell in the basement.
    14) Go to the lavoratory on an airplane; so much fun and excitement, especially when there’s turbulence and both the man and the woman (especially a plus sized woman) are jumping up and down.

    I hope you enjoy the suggestions.

  4. This is nice and insightful info, even though some of it I was already aware of. Thanks.

    Send me part two please

  5. You should never tease an autistic individual or it will backfire on you (teasing an autistic individual will always give you devastating results!)

  6. I don’t know what I want because I’m 61 and never had a boyfriend so I don’t know if I want to share my bed with anyone

  7. This all sounds Very Interesting and I would like to learn more about the things that a woman wants in the bedroom

  8. Women like a man with a great sense of humor. sex is very intense, but breaking the ice is good too! even when you’re joined sex is healthy and a wonderful experience sometimes it can be awkward but seize the moment! Laughter can make a big difference in your relationship!

    I can’t tell you some of my most intimate moments that were very funny where we were both laughing so hard, we had tears coming forth and it was at the height of passion, but it made it greater in the moment at that time!

    So Laugh enjoy each other, enjoy the gift of sex God gave us as men and women.
    It’s a beautiful relationship between man and woman, “husband and Wife!” <

  9. I think I have loved almost everything because when you love you only want to make the person you love happy.

  10. very good informative article. Men need to understand what women want and not just some hardcore sex with no love. All the things suggested in the article are ways to make your partner feel wanted and not just a another round of sex to satisfy some guy. Imagine you just had sex and the woman gets up and leaves you there to go watch TV and get a snack. Doesn’t say much for you does it. Woman want that attention before, during and after. Talk to her, kiss her all over, tell her how good she is makes you feel. Sometimes a woman may nit rah orgasm but still enjoys what you do. You can always try new methods and things to help her enjoy it more. Over the year I learned from some women what they enjoy and makes the feel good. I do most of what’s in the article but I will always let the woman guide me as to what next step is. When you meet a new woman and she is ready to jump your bones let her decide what she wants to do. more times than not she forgo foreplay and just wants you inside her. Once you get there you can back off and start slowly kissing and talking to her and using different methods to satisfy her. Just a thought from experience you have try different sexual things and let her show you what she wants to do. Some women may not want to do things you do on first date. Go sow and enjoy it.

  11. A sense of humor! After thirty years of wedded bliss nature has neutered me. My gorgeous body gone, my shiny brown hair, now sparce and gray, my sinewy muscles lost between flab and stretched tendons.

    My only remaining asset is my ability to not only laugh ,it have my wife entertained by my humor as we snicker and giggle at life’s blows.

  12. The only comment that I agree with is #10: Take Control. The rest of them are just lots of hot air. Women want the ‘hawt’ alpha male with the good body for their bedroom fun. Most women are not attractive enough to get and hold a ‘hawt’ alpha male so they settle for a much less attractive beta male for his financial support. This article was clearly written as advice for the beta males.

  13. Women often complain that, men r a 2 minute nan, r they don’t concentrate on their need r satisfaction! When he does, then he just wants that, quickies r a quick nut! She complains! I’m sorry it takes her so long to warm up/ get n the proper mood. For men it’s a catch 22. U take ur time & do every thing to be sure that she is satisfied to ur knowledge! But then after the ultimate is sealed, u forgot to hug r cuddle her! U failed

  14. So what are the 10 things! My wife has been very cold and I need some help, it’s not me and she is not hiding anything that I know of !

  15. Nothing is worse than kissing someone with bad breath. Or have them blow their exhale breathing in your face.

  16. You forgot the part where he has to lick it before he sticks it. Very important!! You can’t just put it in slowly or quickly and the magic happens. Doesn’t work like that.

  17. You forgot the most important thing. Foreplay before you hop into bed. A little stroking in the car or the movies or while watching tv is very sexy.

  18. I truly would like to know what men want in bed because I feel sometimes, they just rushing through and it’s their manly duty.

  19. I read the story. I wonder if is about what women want in bed, or what white women want in bed. I saw the pictures of women, but NO ONE looked like me. I saw a man who was not white of course, but he was with a white woman. I am pretty certain that the writer of the article may just want to keep his or her woman happy. Good for you! I will remember Detangle Love and will ignore you from now on. If possible I will unsubscribe. I have to protect my beautiful Black self from all white trash anywhere I find it.

  20. Would like the man’s article. Good work now I won’t have to tell him because he is for sure clueless.

  21. “10 Things Women Want In Bed” is great information. Please send more helpful articles. I truly appreciate it.

  22. You failed to mention a big d*ck. Another thing women won’t tell you but every one of them wants. They even compare you to others when they’re talking with their friends so don’t think that every girlfriend of hers doesn’t know your size.

  23. How about trying for an orgasm once in a while? We take longer and require just the right touch. Men seldom take the lead in this. Sad!

  24. All ten things you advised to help ones love life with the one your with is very assume… Everyone wants to feel they are special with each other… One has to talk to each other to understand what each likes from their relationship… Great article….

  25. Great lessons to be learned here I will send to my husband as after 13 years a lot has disappeared however I decided to take control so please advise on what men preferred
    Thank you

  26. I really liked the info and totally agree with it. I would certainly like to hear about the man’s side of what he wants.

  27. What a woman or a man wants in bed is their partner to make them feel special. My brothers out there put her needs above yours in the bed room and trust me your needs will be more than fulfilled.

  28. Men that really care about sucessful bedroom activity will read about how to satify a woman because he should know to satify her that he will be satified too. Talking in the bedroom about sexual activities takes away from a sensual moment.

  29. Women want money…
    sent to the holy see
    for poor holy father
    to spend traveling
    and drinking beer

  30. Loved this article! I was looking around for the “fly on the wall”. You nailed it! We’ve been married for 39 years next month. Sex was always, ah, 10 minutes, TOPS. Felt great, while there, but I always hoped for more substance! He stopped coming anywhere near me 3 years ago. When I ask, he’s tired or aches, or running late, or sore, or got things on his mind, or …..

  31. I Really Like reading about these thing!!!!!!! Thank You So Very Much!!!!!
    Now I would Love to read about what men want!!!!!! Please:):):)
    I will keep you informed.
    And I would like to let you know that my husband has done some of these thing you have suggested & OHOHOHOH YES They Do Work!!!
    So Men Lision You Will Be Happy You Did:):):)?:)

    Ms. H
    From The Desert .

  32. Oh yea they want in bed but wont tell you. Do I loo like doggon Mandrake the magician, women brains are like a spider web that’s the bloddy problem, then to state that they love to multi task. If Adam didn’t eat after she wouldda turn into a pillar of Salt

  33. Oh Oh saying their name will get you over the waterfall great, what about saying another woman’s name Huh that would really speed things up like a cheetah. How about that, because while you are in bed and you leave to go wash your face 99% of the time another man is in your bed, why because Satan rule you all, plus look out for the faster lie outta their mouths

  34. Take care of their needs: 97% of women will always go astray, because the holy book says it’s hard hard to find a virtuous woman. Imagine a man will give everything he has to make a woman happy, take her out anywhere and there she see’s another woman with a bigger Diamond ring and that can tear your relationship apart. Isn’t it true that women brains are like a Spider web once you touch it all cylinders start sparking but a man usually focus on one thing at a time, like box, now if that’s the case how the hell can you take care of her needs, when in actually women focus on their WANTS
    Cuddling: Huh! yea with a Big A…..s python around her neck

  35. Enjoyed reading this, many of the things mentioned I have already tried and what a response…. Best ever.

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