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11 Signs Your Spouse Is Secretly Flirting With Other People

24 January 2023 · 7 min read
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They act differently with other people

If your partner is usually neutral to everyone around you, but he/she completely lights up when interacting with a particular person, then it might be a clue that something’s not right. As explained in Truth about Deception, when sudden flirty behavior is addressed to a specific person, it might be the time for a serious talk.

You need to pay attention if your spouse shows any signs that he/she might be interested in a special friend or not.

They are extremely touchy-feely

For the wide majority of people, it can be very difficult to tell the difference between flirting and simply being nice. However, getting touchy-feely with other people is 100% a sign that they might be flirting, according to Love Panky. So unless you’ve agreed upon an open relationship, I think it’s time to have a serious conversation!

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8 responses to “11 Signs Your Spouse Is Secretly Flirting With Other People”

  1. steven c ryan says:
    1 April 2023 at 17:27

    Only 35 years to late, oh well

    Reply
  2. teresa says:
    14 August 2023 at 03:11

    i have a female family member married 40 years and a guy friend married 47 years, both are not happy in their marriage, they would like to leave but they have been with the spouses a long time it’s a convience. each of these people have gone out with other people, the family member only two people and the guy – who knows how many he has gone out with. don’t their spouses suspect anything wth! in a way i feel sorry for both of them bc they have wasted their spouses time and their time sneaking around. after many years i guess this is accepted! sad

    Reply
  3. Jean says:
    17 August 2023 at 17:00

    My spouse stays on his tablet all the time acting like he is playing a game. I believe he has his text messages forwarded to his tablet using webmail. I know he is flirting and messaging other people.

    Reply
  4. Feral Tomm says:
    20 November 2023 at 05:12

    Sighhhh—The problems you heathens create for yourselves!! FACE IT!! What you fear is cheating! AKA—ADULTERY.

    For those of us who are loyal to our loving Creator—ADULTRY is a serious sin with serious consequences—one of the Ten Commandments states it plainly—“Thou Shalt NOT Commit Adultery”. Isn’t THAT easy to comprehend??

    No, not for you self-enthusiasts and ego-maniacs who have no scruples nor self restraint nor any ethical guidelines in life. Just do what you feel like all the time! What a loser’s path you are on!

    You need to get on your knees and pray to your savior Jesus for forgiveness! HERE! Allow me to guide you—“Oh dear Jesus, I am tired of living in disgraceful sin all my waking hours. I detest my sins and seek your forgiveness! I wish to serve you! What may I do for you?? Please isolate me from the following (including but not necessarily limited to)—
    * Predators
    * Parasites
    * Propagandists
    * Opportunists
    * Drug Crazed
    * Criminally Insane
    * Miscreants
    * Sex Maniacs
    * Sundry Other Brands of Demoniacs—–
    AMEN!”

    These words of wisdom are a gift to you from your favorite sage, Feral Tomm…You are WELCOME!!

    Reply
    • Jacqui Everett says:
      17 January 2024 at 17:58

      Feral Tomm:
      I completely agree with you however maybe you will consider this..Jesus is the SON of GOD..Therefore not the creator!! all due respect, worship, prayer, and glory should go to our creator GOD. Jesus will agree because in the bible he gives all praise, power, and respect to his father, his creator.
      Just Sayin. I applaud you for your moral compass!!

      Reply
      • Dennis Ray says:
        23 March 2026 at 06:48

        Jacqui,

        Indeed, Jesus is the Creator.

        1 In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. 2 He was in the beginning with God. 3 All things came into being through Him, and apart from Him nothing came into being that has come into being (John 1:1-3, NASB).

        15 He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation. 16 For by Him all things were created, both in the heavens and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities—all things have been created through Him and for Him. 17 He is before all things, and in Him all things hold together (Colossians 1:15-17, NASB).

        Sincerely,
        Dennis

        Reply
  5. MAC says:
    20 November 2023 at 12:01

    I found out about my ex cheating because I got an anonymous letter in the mail. He of course denied it. After getting proof, I filed for a divorce.

    Reply
  6. Melissa Nanocchio-Willford says:
    21 November 2023 at 06:44

    What about these hidden apps Now and incognito you can’t track back from what they have been up too either

    Reply

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