5. You had better

If you thought that these things your partner should never find out weren’t that important, this one might change your mind! Intimacy is, well, intimate, so what happens between the sheets should stay there.

Everyone has different performances in the bedroom based on age, activity level, stress, anxiety, attraction, and so many other things, but this doesn’t mean that you should start comparing.

If you had a steamy night with your SO, but it wasn’t exactly how you wanted it to be, don’t be so quick to judge them and tell them you had it better, because it will ruin your romantic connection.

Maybe you had, indeed, better bedtimes with your past lover, but that’s not the type of information you’d want to share with your new one. If there’s something you don’t like, a little conversation and some extra help might make everything better.