They pretend they heard you only to continue doing what you brought up to them!
This is one of the worst signs that your partner never listens to you, especially if you have brought up specific topics and issues repeatedly. nd for this one, we do not mean only problems and arguments you want to discuss and resolve! When a partner does not care enough to listen to you, they will barely pay attention to anything you tell them, even if it’s as small as changing the place where you store your cereal in the cabinet!
When we discuss issues and arguments you may have, they may not only not listen to you but also ignore anything you say by default because they are used to not listening to anyone when they get admonished or even when you are angry with them because they do not listen to you. If your partner never listens to what you say, as in they never seem to remember what you told them, then it is a sign that they probably do not value what you are saying much.
If you recognize these signs in yourself or you believe that you are not listening as well as you could, we recommend that you read this book on effective communication with your partner and others in your life!