DETANGLE’s Insight
Are you married for more than ten years, but you’re suspicious that your husband might hate you? If the answer is yes, this article is for you! In today’s discussion, I will try to show you some of the most obvious signs that your spouse has changed his attitude towards you, so read along because maybe it’s time to do something about it!
Do you think your husband hates you?
When you get married, you think it’s for life, and you will live happily ever after. And while some people are lucky enough to get even more attached to their spouse, others fail to keep the fire burning. To be honest, every woman wishes for her husband to be romantic and caring for the rest of their lives together.
But what happens when you notice that he isn’t present that much anymore, or worse, he gives you the impression that everything you do is bad and he doesn’t like the person you’ve become? At first, you will be sad and hurt, and you will probably try to understand what happened that led to this bitter end. And then you will probably hope that you’re wrong and this is just a phase that will go away eventually.
In this article, we will clarify this for you, show you what the red flags are, and help you understand if your husband still loves you or not. Let’s see!
I read an excerpt from the book recommended at the beginning of the article and was disappointed. The therapist who wrote the book seemed to want people who have been betrayed to trust again. If the person who you believe betrayed you still denies and deflects your suspicions, I don’t see how trust can be rebuilt.
she said “I married you because you liked to talk”. Then started to shut me down, take over the relationship, chase me away. Then says “what happened”? Get in trouble when I open my mouth. I don’t open my mouth to her anymore. I HATE control freaks, in my house AND in gov’t. I will NOT die a slave
Timothy, it sounds like it’s time to move on. No need in prolonging the agony. All the best to you.
I Agree with Susan, time to ove on.
Absolutely Agree 💯 going through all these obstacles currently its heartbreaking don’t know what is what anymore sadly ….
Ever think it’s consequences of her past and or current actions. Relationships are a two way street, once one verse off course then why should the other remain?
This is why there’s so many issues with relationships now and days. The OUTSIDE “INFLUENCES” and an individual’s poor choices or judgement. Plus the victimization is not only disgusting in a social false sense, but it’s generally from only ONE SIDED VIEWPOINT.
My wonderful significant other lives in Missouri and I live in Nevada. He recently decided that he wants us to live together. H sold his house, one of his three cars and everything in his house, except a few things that have special meaning to him. Everything is amazing between us but I am so afraid of something changing, he tells me that he also is very happy. We both lost our spouses, mine 16 years ago and his 17 months ago. We are both in our 80’s, have considerable assets and children. He wants to get married but I cannot commit. Do not want any problems with children when one of us passes. He is everything I want in a partner
have seen this before today
A lot of the time it’s because she’s not around and finds her “friends” are more important to please than her other half. Or she is more concerned with what others think while blowing off those she should call family. It’s not always one way, try viewing it from both sides before passing judgement.
I find it fascinating, more times than not, it’s always the Husband who is no lobger interested &/or no longer in love with their respective spouses; when it’s women are more likely to file for divorce than men. In the United States, studies have found that women initiate about 69% to 70% of divorces.
And since, over 50% of divorced wives never want to remarry while only about 30% of men express that same sentiment; it’s fairly clear (statistically speaking), women in their respective 1st marriages are the problem –yet journalist consistently opine, it’s the Husband who’s the problem &/or falls out of interest/love –the numbers speak for themselves regarding 1st marriages
a woman should wear nude color nylons with a garterbelt to drive a man to his highest expectations
I have experienced these 7 signs and I am not a woman. Therefore, this applies to men as well.
Husband didn’t come home after work. He would hang out at his favorite bar. Were there other women? I don’t know but suspected there was. We had 2 children and I was afraid to leave for fear I couldn’t support them and myself. Later things got better. I told his Mother and she said “Oh, he is just like his father.”