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How Can You Tell If a Married Woman Wants You? (10 Signs)

23 January 2023 · 7 min read
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She talks about her marital problems with you

Does she talk about the issues she is currently facing in her marriage with you? When a married woman desires you, she will also start opening up about the cracks in her own marriage. She might talk about the issues she experienced in the past with her spouse, and might even start venting about him to you.

Probably the most obvious sign you need to look out for is when she draws a contrast between you and her spouse. This kind of contrast might be seen in phrases like: “I wish it was you.”, or “I wish he was as kind as you are.” At this point, I think it’s very clear that she would rather want you, over anyone else.

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30 responses to “How Can You Tell If a Married Woman Wants You? (10 Signs)”

  1. JOSEPH J FINK says:
    29 March 2023 at 15:37

    if you could only tell if they want a one night stand or a long term relationship.

    Reply
    • Richard Kellar says:
      15 July 2023 at 18:17

      a good man will assume “one night stand”

      Reply
      • Colin Coady says:
        24 December 2023 at 15:13

        Am a good man

        Reply
      • Larry says:
        3 January 2024 at 15:37

        Then, who’s the snake, him or her?

        Reply
      • Diane Hubbell says:
        5 November 2024 at 17:47

        A ‘Good Man’ wouldn’t have an affair with a married woman.

        Reply
    • david`` culpepper says:
      24 August 2024 at 23:50

      they are married!!!they don’t know!

      Reply
    • Jeb says:
      26 August 2024 at 10:44

      Oh I’m a women and we will tell you in the very beginning what we are looking for. We only say it once so you have to pay close attention. If you don’t listen and assume what we want and get it wrong you’ve ruined it for you.

      Reply
  2. vincent curreri says:
    8 April 2023 at 01:10

    depends ons person , all different

    Reply
  3. Charles Reed says:
    13 May 2023 at 22:14

    When your wife in the hospital with your first born, he best friend tell you to stop by on the way home and get the meat loaf she made for you. When you do, she invite you in and tell you her husband will not be home for 2 hours. I did pick up the meat loaf and thank her, but did not use any of the two hours.

    Reply
    • DIRTYOLDMAN says:
      6 January 2024 at 12:49

      wait what!?? was meatloaf any good!?? & why is there a 2 hour wait for it!??

      Reply
  4. Nico says:
    21 December 2023 at 13:54

    A good man doesn’t touch what doesn’t belong to him.

    Reply
  5. SpeedBump says:
    6 January 2024 at 08:15

    If you are a guy, and not listening to your own instincts about a married woman, you should go back to Jr High School!

    A woman will always telegraph her feelings. She’s wired that way, and can’t fight it.

    If your instincts say she’s into you, believe it!

    My situation – I’m 61 years old, and a Twenty Something little sweetheart is sending me signals all the time. I’m still feeling her out to determine if she has daddy issues, and finds me non threatening, or if she for whatever reason, thinks I’m younger than I look. Whatever the reason, I’m having fun with it..

    Not quite sure if I want to bed her down, or just look out for her.

    I too find her attractive and desirable, where da hell was she thirty years ago, lol..

    In the meanwhile, I go home to the hag I’m married to, with her on my mind. It’s fun to play, even still, I can’t cheat on my wife! I’m
    Not wired that way.

    On the other hand, I’m still a man. If this “kid” woman throws herself at me, “Daddy didn’t raise an idiot”. (At least in this regard)

    Realistically, I hope she never does!

    I just want things to remain platonic..

    I appreciate the attention, and the wild thoughts more…

    Reply
  6. Jennnifer Weiskal says:
    9 January 2024 at 06:10

    Ridiculous to have any romantic ideas of a married woman, utterly absurd to entertain wth if she is flirting or not. She should not catch a man’s attention & vice versa. If some feelings are there turn away immediately if not sooner. Homewreckers! Geez.

    Reply
  7. Captain Ricker says:
    13 January 2024 at 21:21

    These are pretty subtle signs. A more obvious one that a woman pulled on me was to say “Let’s leave here and go somewhere private – I want you to f*** me.”

    Reply
  8. Steve Miller says:
    30 June 2024 at 16:43

    I have a married woman who is REALLY into me. Just about everything noted in the article. I try to resist, but it’s very difficult since I see her every day. I am not sure what to do. Oh, by the way… she is my wife!

    Reply
  9. Pamela says:
    30 June 2024 at 20:40

    If you recognize any of the signs mentioned here on the married woman you’re interested in, then you know what to do next.  What do you do next? I specially liked the one, “if she’s laughing at your jokes, you may think she’s lost her mind.” Lol. Every place of refuge has its price

    Reply
  10. Feral Tomm says:
    24 August 2024 at 21:35

    ZZzzzzzZZZZZzzzZZzz—An old practice called adultery. One of our Creator’s Laws, called the “Ten Commandments” forbids such acts. Women who wish to breach the confines of their marriage are known as harlots.

    BEWARE, real men—lest these fallen women try to seduce you and drag you into the wallow they are slopping around in. The BEST WAY to deal with trouble is to avoid it in the first place.

    These words of wisdom gifted to you by your favorite Sage, Feral Tomm—YOU ARE WELCOME!

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    • Jim Wilson says:
      27 August 2024 at 18:19

      Exactly right.

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    • MJDF says:
      5 November 2024 at 14:04

      Don’t forget these same Commandments apply to men as well.

      Reply
    • Adolphus Dixon says:
      27 January 2025 at 05:25

      Thanks Feral; people need to know that adultery is a serious sin which God forbids a married woman or man to engage into. Hell is the final destination for such people.

      Reply
  11. Dave says:
    24 August 2024 at 21:42

    Eh, what good is she if she’s been “invested in”? I want a virgon… —

    Reply
  12. Eddie says:
    25 August 2024 at 19:43

    Any women want to be unfaithful….let me know….long dong

    Reply
  13. Sammy the Rat with Women says:
    25 August 2024 at 23:09

    In my experience the promise of that “one night stand” might well turn out in your bedmate stalking you, threatening to tell your wife, and generally making your life into a Living Hell.

    An old saying applies here: “When the P*ick gets hard, the brains often get buried in the ground.”

    IOW Don’t do it.

    Reply
  14. ROBERT J. VOGT SR. says:
    26 August 2024 at 03:50

    Any married woman or man that cheats or is looking for something outside of their marriage can not be trusted to be true to the person they are cheating with, once a cheat always a cheat.

    Reply
  15. S says:
    27 November 2024 at 09:31

    Where should I start? I call this LIES !!!!!! SMH

    Reply
  16. AlphaatDelta says:
    27 November 2024 at 15:38

    If she’s married and makes advances towards you, deflect the situation and leave. She’s not worth it. If she can’t be faithful to the man she promised to spend her life with, then she will turn on you faster than you think. Make no regrets

    Reply
  17. akazvalley70 says:
    29 November 2024 at 14:18

    If you’re ever unsure if what you’re doing with another person is disrespectful to your spouse, the best person to ask is your spouse.
    You already know what you’re doing if you don’t want to ask your spouse.
    People with high self-esteem and high worth will never compromise their reputation to have a disrespectful relationship. They value and respect all people and their self over having a relationship with an unavailable person.
    Characterize people by their actions, so you’re not fooled by their words. Let people do what they want to do, so you can see what they would rather do. How you respond to them is where you’re power is. Take care of yourself.

    Reply
  18. Michael X. Wilson says:
    10 December 2024 at 20:45

    I don’t know about the “sage”Feral Tom but I DO know about the Bible. Tom’s advice is in the Bible. So is his punchline. The best way to deal with trouble is to avoid trouble. I don’t want to know when a married woman is flirting with me because I don’t want to get with one! Nor do I want to sleep around with single women. That’s FORNICATION!

    Reply
  19. Bill Walton says:
    12 December 2024 at 15:48

    How to tell if she wants a one night stand, or ?????????????

    Reply
  20. Shannon 0 says:
    28 January 2025 at 18:42

    Set up a date and invite the husband but don’t tell the cheating tramp. Or if you are a pug go to his house and do what ever and leave him a note under the toilet seat where only he will see it tell him She’s a two-faced tramp and that she let you hit it and you thought he should know

    Reply

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