4. The rumours

If you are in a stable marriage, you know that rumors are not the best source to trust when you are thinking about your relationship. What happens in your marriage is your business and also your partner’s business. No one else should be involved.

It is not that unusual for jealous and mean people to spread false rumors about someone else’s partner because they only want to misinform you. This can happen in your marriage, and it is not the best thing.

But keep in mind that if you are starting to hear rumors about your spouse, even if they seem completely impossible and are most surely untrue, don’t entirely dismiss them. These rumors may help you find out if your lover is being insincere with you.

Is your spouse hiding something from you? If you hear some rumors that might indicate this, be aware that this is a matter you should discuss with your spouse. This is the safest approach that can help you understand what is happening.