Taboo relationship practice: Going on vacation separately
It may seem entirely taboo to go on a vacation without your significant other, and maybe even odd to some if you spend the weekend apart. But having a few moments away from each other every once in a while can improve your relationship in a meaningful way.
If you’re in a committed, trusting relationship, this taboo relationship practice can bring more to your relationship than you might expect. This includes new conversations, how much they appreciate you and all you do, time to miss each other, and so on.
Even though you certainly might want to do things together and create bonds to last a lifetime, you shouldn’t be afraid to go alone periodically if that’s what you both want to do.
I find your article interesting. I am male age 56 my wife has decided that she is polygamous after 16 years of marriage. I am in shock and my world is turned upside down at this very moment. The same thing happened to my first marriage and we were married for 15 years. I am trying to make sense of it all. I have trust issues and I have a temper that I need to get into check. I am a Disabled Veteran and I am on disability so I don’t work but I do all of the house work and outside work. I also have ED so we have sex but without penetration. I was brought up as a Lutheran Christian and divorce is not an option but I did tell her that I don’t want our marriage to end and that if polyamory is the only option that I would consider it even though it goes against my beliefs. I am a jealous person as well. I am hoping you might have some information on this subject matter and that makes it might help me understand what I am going through. I have spiced things up in the bedroom and I am getting help from my Dr and will see a urologist to see if there is anything that can be done to help in that area. I am able to orgasm and I am able to satisfy my wife with other means that are very kinky and taboo. The last few months we have been fighting a lot she is constantly online chatting with men and being sexual she has lost 4 jobs in 6 months. I am confused hurt and feel disrespected. Any help would be greatly appreciated