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8 Ways to Tease Your Partner and Make Them Love You More

Detangle Love presents: ways to tease your partner and make them love you more!

Whether you’re in love with a man or a woman, the secret to making your relationship romantic and spicy even after many years is teasing. You have to know how to tease your partner, give them something, and then pull back, only to make things interesting, fun, exciting, and steamy.

There might be times when life happens and one of you is stressed, anxious, or fatigued and might not be in the mood to play games or be intimate, and that’s understandable; it can be solved with time, patience, and communication. Otherwise, a couple will always appreciate a bit of mystery, and in today’s article, we’ll talk about how to tease your partner the right way.

This is an incredible seduction weapon, and if you know what to do and when to do it, it can bring the spark back between us or it can help you make sure you’ll never lose it.

I’ve told you that I’ve been married to my husband for over 20 years, and our relationship has had many bumps along the way. We learned how to communicate with one another, when to push limits, and when to back off, and we made it work. I want him to know that I’m still the s*xy, smart, and funny girl he fell in love with, so I tease him with almost every chance I get. If that’s what you want to do too, you’re in the right place.

Without further ado, let’s talk about all the ways you could tease your partner and make them love you more!

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1. Use technology

The first thing you need to keep in mind when it comes to teasing your special someone is that it doesn’t necessarily have to be related to the bedroom activity. You can tease your partner with whatever you want and feel comfortable with.

For instance, if one of you isn’t home and you want to make them miss you, just send them a text saying you miss them and add a winking emoji. Or you could reply to their text or call late and tell them you were in the shower. This will let their minds wander without you saying anything about intimacy.

2. Talk about the bedroom

Your bedroom activity is a surefire way to keep things interesting and fun. If you want to spice it up or surprise them with an impromptu love session, you could subtly bring the subject around them. You can say something about a scene in a movie or TV show you both watch.

Or you could describe to him a scene you discovered in your book and then add that you want to try that too. This will get their motors running, and, of course, unless something is going on in their minds and they can’t focus physically, something amazing might happen between you two.

Do you use the “S” word to tease your partner? Let me know in the comments below!

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3. Body language

We’ve talked about body language many times on our website, and the only reason is because it works. Regardless of how long you’ve been together, you can still keep things fun and lovely. You could place your hand on their arm when they talk, or you could even tap them when they tell you a joke.

You can use your clothing items to draw attention to a specific body part without saying anything directly or showing off. For instance, you could wear something skintight that makes them stare for a second and walk in front of them, then turn and give them a flirty smile.

4. Be confident

Confidence is key to whatever you do, and if you plan to tease your partner, you need that confidence, babe. Both flirting and teasing might not work if you don’t believe in yourself. You have to be determined, know what you can do and what you bring to the table, and everything will be fine.

If you second-guess yourself, your partner will do the same. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself. Just relax, be playful and flirty, smile, and be yourself.

5. Be touchy-touchy

You want to tease your partner, so be touchy-touchy, but not too touchy. Yes, I know, it sounds weird, but trust me, it works every time. The hidden tease is all about subtlety. There are several methods to quietly tease your lover and get physical.

A nice technique to perform the incognito tease is to gently rub against them while cuddling, especially if you are spooning. They’ll enjoy the full-body contact, and maybe they’ll get touchy-touchy too.

If you want to try something different, you can try an unexpected touch. It might be as simple as a soft caress while watching a movie that shows you’re thinking about them, or it can be more flirty, such as reaching into your partner’s pocket, lingering for a while, and then snatching the car or house keys.

See, I told you these are simple ways to tease your partner and have fun at the same time! Keep reading for more!

6. Compliment them

Compliments will never get out of fashion, and if you want to tease your partner and let them know how attracted you are to them, make them feel special.

Tell them their shirt looks nice or their hair looks amazing. Or show your appreciation for something they did, such as a meal, or maybe how good they look in a particular color. It doesn’t matter what the nature of the compliment you want to give them; just do it, and they’ll appreciate it.

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7. Give them space

And focus on yourself and your goals. If you want to tease your partner but not exaggerate or give them too much at once, pull back and give them space. This doesn’t mean you should ghost them or not talk to them, especially if you live together. Talk to them and act like you would normally, but instead of spending so much time together, focus on what you want to do.

For instance, if you would normally ask them to join you on a trip to the mall, just go by yourself. This will give you time to process your thoughts and to clear your head, and it will let them know that you are fine by yourself.

I know you might think that it’s not exactly a way to tease your partner but trust me, it works. The majority of people like it when their special someone is focused on their goals, independent, and confident. Am I right? Share your thoughts with me in the comment section!

8. Public sneak

There are many ways you could tease your partner, both physically and mentally, as you’ve seen in today’s article. But now let’s take it back to the frisky situation because every couple needs to spend some time in the bedroom and blow off some steam.

There’s something exhilarating about being romantic with your SO in public, whether we talk about going at it or simply kissing. You can make your partner feel special when you’re in public and they least expect it, and I guarantee you’ll have fun. You can do anything, from pulling them into a dark corner and kissing them passionately to touching them romantically.

You can always get closer to them and let them know you’re going commando. If you want to tease your partner when you’re not together, send them a special selfie or text, and you might see some fireworks when they come home.

If you want to tease your partner and make your relationship stronger, there are many games for couples you could try. They’re fun, and they will help you open up to one another. Here’s my favorite one. Check it out!

Do you know any other ways to tease your partner? Let us know in the comments below! If you enjoyed reading this article from Detangle Love and you’d like to check out something else, here’s an amazing post for you: When A Man No Longer Loves His Wife, It’s Easy To See These 11 Signs

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